For The Weekend..

In Our Marriages, We Don Dey Allow Things And People To Dey Put Asunder Wetin God Don Join Together.

No Allow Your Mama, Papa, Friends And Even Your Children To Come Between You And Your Husband O! You Dey Hear Me So???

God No Join You And Them O… Na Only You And Your Husband!!...

If You Dey Dis Page And You Dey Put Asunder Somebody’s Marriage, Abeg Repent O In Jesus’ Name Before Nemesis Go Catch Up With You!

E Go Better For All Of Our Marriages In Jesus’ Name O! Amen!!

Make Una Enjoy This Weekend Oo
Oya Receive My Love And Hugs.. You Don Take Am?? 

Ten Lies Of Porn – Conclusion(4)..

Is There Any Freedom From Porn Addiction?

Pornography Entraps You With Lies. In Contrast, God Can Lead Us Into Truth. Jesus Said, "If You Hold To My Teaching, You Are Really My Disciples. Then You Will Know The Truth, And The Truth Will Set You Free." 

Those Who Heard Jesus Say This Were Offended And Countered, "We Have Never Been Slaves Of Anyone, How Can You Say That We Shall Be Set Free?" And Jesus Explained That People Are Enslaved To Sin, But That He Can Set You Free.

Sin Not Only Enslaves Us, But It Distances Us From God. And No One Is Perfect. No One Is Righteous In God's Eyes. Instead We're Told That "We

Johnny Lingo’s Eight-cow Wife by Patricia McGerr..

When I visited the South Pacific islands, I took a notebook along. I had a three‐week leave between assignments in Japan, so I borrowed a boat and sailed to Kiniwata. The notebook was supposed to help me become a junior‐grade Maugham or Michener. But when I got back, among all my notes the only sentence that still interested me was the one that said, “Johnny Lingo gave eight cows to Sarita’s father.”

Johnny Lingo wasn’t exactly his name. But I wrote it down that way because I learned about the eight cows from Shenkin, the fat manager of the guest house at Kiniwata. He was from Chicago and had a habit of Americanizing the names of the islanders. He wasn’t the only one who talked about Johnny, though. His name came up with many people in many connections. 

If I wanted to spend a few days on the island of Nurabandi, a day’s sail away, Johnny Lingo could put me up, they told me, since he had built a five‐room house—unheard‐of luxury! If I wanted to fish, he could show me where the biting was best. If I wanted fresh vegetables, his garden was the greenest. If I sought pearls, his business savvy would bring me the best buys. Oh, the people of Kiniwata all spoke highly of Johnny Lingo. Yet when they spoke, they smiled, and the smiles were slightly mocking.

“Get Johnny Lingo to help you find

Ten Lies Of Pornography – Conclusion(3)

Porn Addiction: Am I Addicted?

If You See Any Of These Patterns In Your Life, You Need To Put The Brakes On Right Now! Is Porn Becoming More And More In Control Of Your Life? Do You Have Trouble Putting It Down(Magazines) Or Switching It Off(TV/Computer etc.)? Do You Keep Going Back For More?

What Can I Do?

The First Thing You've Got To Do Is Admit That You Struggle With Pornography. Believe Me; You Are Not Strange Or Unusual If You Do. Millions Of Men And Women Are At Various Stages In Their Struggle With Porn. It's Really Not Surprising. 

The Porn Industry Has Spent Billions Of Dollars Trying To Snare You. Is It Really Shocking That They Have Succeeded? For Some Of You There May

He Stopped Communicating With Me, I Mistakenly Lost My Virginity With Another Man, Now He’s Back And Wants To Marry Me But Blames Me For My Lost Virginity. What Should I Do?

Dear Beloved, Please Help A Friend In Need: My Fiancé Is In A State Of Bitterness. I And My Fiancé Has Been In A Very Good Relationship For Many Years Now. He Was A Very Nice And God Fearing Person. We Grew To Love Each Other. All Through Those Times He Knew I Was A Virgin And Encouraged Me To Keep It. Then All Of A Sudden He Stopped Communicating With Me And Didn't Respond To My Messages. This Went On For Long And I Became Broken Hearted Because He Was The Best Friend I Had Then. I Confided In Matured People Even My Mum And They Told Me To Move On With My Life Which I Reluctantly Did. Someone Else In My Church Approached Me For Dating, I Refused Initially But Had To Accept – Not Because I Was Really Interested But To Get My Lost Friend Out Of My Mind. All Throughout The Period Of Dating My Present Man, I Was Emotionally Unbalanced. One Day, One Thing Led To Another And He Had Sex With Me, I Was So Full Of Regrets After That Day, The Feeling I Had Was Awful. I Had To Leave Him Because He Turned Out To Be Someone I Never Desired – He Was Just The Opposite Of My Other Guy. Immediately I Left Him Still In Pain Of Giving Myself To Him, My Other Friend Re-Surfaced Back With Excuses Of How He Was Struggling To Be A Man To Come Back And Settle Down With Me. He Then Asked If I Was A Virgin, I Couldn’t Stand The Shame And Reaction From Him So I Had To Lie. After A Year, He Proposed, I Still Couldn’t Tell Him Out Of Fear. We Were Preparing For Our Marriage And I Decided To Pay Him A Visit With My Parent's Consent. One Thing Led To Another, He Had Sex With Me And Found Out. I Had To Confess And Told Him Everything. After Some Time He Forgave Me And He Is Pushing On With The Marriage But He Hasn't Been Himself. He Is Bitter, Brings Up The Past And Falls Sick From Time To Time. I Have Made Peace With God Long Ago But I Can’t Forgive Myself For Hurting Him This Way. He Is Resenting Me, He Said He Can’t Get The Thought Out Of His Mind, And That It Will Forever Live With Him, That Things Might Not Be The Way It Use To Be And Lots Of Other Things. He Said There Is Nothing I Can Do Cos I’ve Lost His Most Cherished Gift To Another Man. I Am Full Of Regrets Now. I Haven’t Been With Any Man Since Then, I Wished It Was Him But It Wasn’t Intentional. If Only He Didn’t Go, I Might Not Have Even Had Anything To Do With Another Man. I Am So Confused. What Can I Ever Do Again? I Have Prayed To God To Forgive Me And Heal Him. I Don't Know What To Do. I Only Cry And Pray Day And Night.

ANSWER:

My Dear Sister, Your Story Is A Long One But I Couldn’t Cut Much Out Because It’s Really A Heavy Burden From/In Your Heart.  A Man That Is Really Interested In Marrying You Will Not Just Disappear Like That For A Long Time Without Keeping In Touch With You – The Excuse Of Struggling To Be A Man So He Can Come And Marry You Does Not Really Make Much Sense.

What If He Returned And Met You Married, Wouldn’t He Have Continued With His Life? To Now Blame You And Refuse To Forgive You Of Your Past Because You Lost Your Virginity In The Process Is Quite A Harsh Judgement. Am I Exonerating You? NO! But Like

Pray For Nigeria..

As Tomorrow Na Presidential Election, We Must To Panel-Beat Heaven’s Gate With Our Prayers O! So Join Me Make Wey Pray!
Baba God, Na Only Your Counsel Go Stand For This Election In Jesus’ Name O! Amen!

As You Dey See All Hearts, No Allow Bad-Belle Person - Who Fit Use Beautiful Smiles And Wonderful Words Take Deceive Us But Who No Fit Deceive You - Sit Down For Our Presidential Seat In Jesus’ Name O!

Abeg Frustrate And Disappoint All Those Politicians With Evil Agenda Against Us And Our Naija In Jesus’ Name O! Amen!
Na Peace, Untiy, Love And Progress And NEVER War, Hate, Division And Stagnation Go Be The Portion Of Our Naija In Jesus’ Name O!

Baba God, Abeg Use Your Hand Take Select The Person Whose Decisions And Agenda And Policies Go Favour Us, Our Families And Our Dear Naija In Jesus’ Name O! Amen!
Blood No Go Flow O! And We No Go Lose Any Of Our Friends And Loved Ones For This Election Period In Jesus’ Name O!

E Go Beta For Us O!
E Go Beta For Our Families And Friends O!
And E MUST To Beta For Our Naija In Jesus’ Name O! Amen!!!

The Banner And Protection Of God Over Us Na Im Love So Enjoy Am Wella This Weekend And Abeg Dey Careful O As You Dey Shine Your Eyes..
Also Try Vote As Me Go Still Try For My Area.. Make My Fingers Rest For Now...
Una Doooo!!!

Ten Lies Of Porn – Conclusion(2)..

Porn Addiction – The Pull Of Pornography:

Not Everyone Who Sees Porn Will Become Addicted. Some Will Just Come Away With Toxic Ideas About Women, Sex, Marriage, And Children. However, Some Will Have Some Kind Of Emotional Opening That Allows The Addiction To Really Grab Hold. 

The Porn Companies Don't Mind At All If You Become Completely Addicted To Their Product. It's Great For Business. For Porn Addicts, It Has Been Found That There Are Different
Stages Of Addiction. Let's Look At These Stages:

Early Exposure:
Most People Who Get Addicted To Porn Start Early. They See Porn When They Are Very Young And It Gets Its Foot In The Door.

Porn Addiction:
You Keep Coming Back To Porn. It Becomes A Regular Part Of Your Life. You're Hooked And Can't Quit.

Escalation:
You Start To

He Told Me That I Should Choose Between School And Marriage. I Don’t Know What To Do.

Hello Beloved, I’m 23yrs Old And In Courtship With This Man – My Mum And Dad Know Him. It Happened That I Decided Not To Go To School But Someone Advised Me To Go Since My Elder Ones Are Through With Their Education. I Made Up My Mind To Go And I Let My Fiancé Know Everything About Me Including My School Stuff. He Said That We Should Do Introduction Since Am About To Go To School But I Told Him That Am Not Ready For That Now Since My Elder Sister Has Not Done Hers Even Though She’s Through With Her Education And That He Should Wait For Me To Enter School First. Later He Told Me That I Should Choose Between School And Marriage. I Told Him That Am Going To School Since I Have Explain Everything To Him But He Said If I Go To School That I Should Forget About The Relationship. I Want You To Advise Me Because I Don’t Know What To Do. I Really Love Him And I Don’t Want To Lose Him.

ANSWER:

My Dear, As For Me, I Will Advise You To Go To School And If Your Fiancé Cannot Wait To Do Your Introduction After You’ve Entered School, Then Let Him Go 'Cos There's No Way You Can Eat Your Cake And Still Have It Since He Has Asked You To Make A Choice. You Need Your Education So That You Can Be More Productive In The Future And Be Of Greater Assistance To Your Husband.

If This Man Cannot Wait For You To Go To School But Is Already Asking You To Choose Between Him And Your Education{Though He May Be