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Friday, July 29, 2011

Love Quotes For Your Weekend(19)..

Never give up on LOVE because there is always someone who’ll LOVE you just the way God created you..

You don’t have to simply keep telling someone you LOVE them. They have to see it in your face and words all the time..

True LOVE is always doing and saying the right thing even if it hurts you or your loved ones in the process..

LOVE does not require you to be perfect. It requires you to forgive, over and over again..

Immature LOVE says I LOVE you because I need you. Mature LOVE says I need you because I LOVE you..

Remain richly blessed as I wish you the best of weekends..

Wednesday, July 27, 2011

How Can I Get Out Of Pornography?

Hi beloved. I thank you for the series of Ten Lies of Pornography(2) and my question is this; how are we able to get out of this? Well done and God bless you. Keep it up!

Thanks Sene and God bless you too. The way to get out of being addicted to pornography is through these following ways;

 First of all, go to God in prayers and ask Him to help you destroy the idol of pornography in your life because anything that controls us is our master and our god. Since you’re asking according to His will because He said you must have no other god but Him, He’ll surely come to your aid.
Secondly, with the power of Christ in you as a born-again Christian, remove, destroy all magazines, vcd's, dvd's, novels, music, porn sites etc that

Monday, July 25, 2011

Ten Lies Of Pornography(2)..

Women Are A "Sport":
Porn subconsciously injects in its viewers the idea that women are a “sport” by the way they treat and handle the women involved in their movies. They count them as conquests which they win and should receive medals for. This evil notion when not checked can permeate the minds of the viewers and cause them to begin thinking of women as “sports” and from thinking to actualization because “as a man thinks in his heart, so is he”.
Some sports magazines have a "swimsuit" issue. This suggests that women are just some kind of sport. Porn views sex as a game and in a game; you have to "win", "conquer", or "score". Men who buy into this view like to

Friday, July 22, 2011

Love Quotes For Your Weekend(18)..

God LOVES you! To prove it, He made all beauties and pleasures of nature for you to enjoy..

Giving LOVE is the greatest pleasure of life..

A person who really LOVES you will never let you go no matter how hard or bleak the situation or future is..

LOVE who LOVES you because they feed your LOVE. LOVE who hates you because they need your LOVE..

In every relationship, you deserve to smile and be happy. Don’t let anyone in the name of LOVE take that away from you..

Remain richly blessed as I wish you the best of the weekend..

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Is It Possible To Date Your Ex-Girl Now That You're In Christ?

Hi Beloved, my question is this; is it okay to be in a relationship with a lady that you've dated when in the world, now that you’re in Christ?

Hi Joseph, let me start by thanking you for choosing to get your answers on love and relationship issues from the right and Godly source(this blog) and your encouragements both here and on our page on facebook. Your inputs are greatly appreciated. I will answer your question based on two premises:

Firstly, if the lady in question has left the world too and is presently a new creature in Christ Jesus, then there’s nothing wrong in being in a relationship with her. I say this because

Monday, July 18, 2011

Ten Lies Of Pornography(1)..

Women Are Less Than Human:
In most pornographic movies and magazines, the way women are treated and the parts, dances and positions given them to perform portrays them as mere playthings and less human. The women in Playboy magazine are called "bunnies," making them cute little animals or "playmates," making them a toy. 
Penthouse magazine calls them "pets." Porn often refers to women as animals, playthings, or body parts. Some pornography shows only the body or the genitals and doesn't show the face at all. The idea that women are real human beings with thoughts and emotions is played down thereby subconsciously filling your mind with the same thought pattern.
But the Bible has the original theory on women. In Gen.1:27, it says “So God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He

Friday, July 15, 2011

Love Quotes For Your Weekend(17)..

Nobody gets tired of hearing the words “I LOVE YOU”. Tell your loved ones how much they mean to you at every opportunity..

LOVE is the essence of everything beautiful. The force behind everything wonderful..

LOVE is taking action – positive, genuine, definite action – to reach out and help others, proving your LOVE for them..

LOVE and friendship are gifts most commonly bestowed upon those who forget themselves and reach out to others..

LOVE is not an option; it is an obligation..

Remain richly blessed as I wish you the best of the weekend..

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

I Need To Have Someone..

"Dear readers, please I would really appreciate responses from you because it will serve as an encouragement to me. You can tick on the Reaction boxes or leave a comment. God bless you as you do so.."

Hi Beloved, I’m almost 33yrs but I don’t have anybody that I’m dating because I’m a kind of person that is shy. Not that I can’t talk to a lady but I’m still looking for a God-fearing person. What should I do now because I need to have someone?

Hi dear, from your question, I can understand that you’re also a God-fearing person which is why you’re searching for a lady who fears God too. Now as a believer in Christ, have you

Monday, July 11, 2011

Ten Lies Of Pornography(Intro)..

Sex Out Of Context
Imagine or visualize a blazing fire in the fireplace. It's safe, warm, relaxing and romantic. Now take that same fire out of the fireplace (which was built for it) and drop it in the middle of the living room. Suddenly it becomes destructive. It can burn down the whole house and kill everyone inside. Sex is like that fire. As long as it's expressed in the protective commitment of a marriage relationship, it's wonderful, warm and romantic. But porn takes sex outside that context.

Porn is a big business that makes a lot of money and doesn't care how. They'll show you whatever they think will make you come back and buy more. It’s everywhere - on the internet, magazines, cd/dvd, novels etc. A Christian has to be extra alert to avoid them.

One of the most vital parts of mental environment is a healthy idea of who we are sexually. If these ideas are polluted, a critical part of who we are becomes twisted. The porn culture tells you that sex, love and intimacy are all the same thing. In porn, people have sex with total strangers --

Friday, July 08, 2011

Love Quotes For Your Weekend(16)..

Show people LOVE, tenderness, gentleness, patience, and respect and they’ll treat you likewise..

LOVE isn’t supposed to be a sideshow in the circus of life. Its supposed to take up all three rings..

Communication from the heart is an expression of LOVE. Write that letter or make that call today..

Set your heart free to fully live and LOVE by leaving behind the hurts of bygone days..

With every act of LOVE you do today, you weave one more golden thread in the blanket that will warm you tomorrow..

Remain blessed and have a wonderful weekend..

Wednesday, July 06, 2011

Scared But Want To Start A Serious Relationship..

Hi Beloved, good morning. I want to start a serious relationship but am scared because I don’t know what to do and who to choose out of two. Please help me out.

A good morning to you too Chi. There’s nothing wrong in starting a serious relationship and I believe that by the word “serious”, you mean a relationship that will end in marriage. Here are some tips that will help you;

Monday, July 04, 2011

Sex Enslavement! What Should I Do?

Dear Askbeloved is it right to be at loggerheads with a girl you have loved before? I went into a relationship with these girl two years ago and had sex with her for three times. As if I'm be bewitched and charmed by the girl, I found it very difficult to refrain from her grips of sex enslavement until I came to myself and went to one of our BIBLE STUDIES madam who upon prayers revealed she girl is a demon-possessed. Since then I have never talked to her for the past two years because if you give her the chance the way she advances and reacts is all leading to allurement and temptation. PLEASE WHAT SHOULD I DO?

 I don't really think I get your question Emma but let me answer it this way: if you feel that anytime you're with this lady, you will be heavily tempted to have sexual relations with her, then I'll advice you to flee from her because the Bible tells us to flee fornication in 1Cor.6:18a.

If you also believe the madam who told you that the girl is demon possessed, then, that's all the more reason to flee from the lady because continued association with her can lead to her easily manipulating you.

Don't go confronting her by telling her that she is demon possessed and don't give her a chance in your life either but you can link her with a strong man of God who can deliver her from the demonic spirits at work in her life.

Finally, I'll also advice you personally to seek God's deliverance from the bond you’ve formed with her by having sex with her. Pray that God will break the bond and free you so that you can continue with your life afresh.

All the best dear and remain blessed..

Friday, July 01, 2011

Love Quotes For Your Weekend(15)..

LOVE is the ability to see beyond the faults of another and to discover the beauties of his or her heart..

God LOVES you and knows you personally. He will never leave you or forsake you..

Where there is LOVE, there’s a touch of the divine. Make time for LOVE in your life..

There’s no one too insignificant for God to LOVE and care for..

The tongue is a sword or a magic wand; it can cut and kill, or LOVE and heal..

Remain richly blessed as I wish you the best of the weekend filled with the LOVE and peace of God..