Long Distance Relationship. Can It Really Work??

Dear Beloved, Is It Possible Keep A Distance Relationship, And The Love Will Still Be There? That Is Seeing The Person Once In Two Years?

ANSWER:        

I Believe I Can Give You A Good Advice On This Matter Because I’m Personally Involved In A Long-Distance Relationship/Engagement And From Experience; I Can Say That It’s Absolutely Possible To Keep Or Get Involved In A Long-Distance Relationship As Far As You Trust Each Other.

What Kills Every Relationship Is A Lack Of Trust. Trust Is So Important In A Relationship Because It Is The

I See Him In My Dreams. How Do I Know If He’s My Husband??

Dear Beloved, I’m A New Convert And The Person Who Converted Me Was My Ex. We Never Had Any Sexual Relationship When We Were In The World So After Converting, He Asked Me To Pray About Us. That We Should Seek The Face Of God About Marriage Which I Did. I Normally See Him In My Dream But I Don’t Know Whether He Is My Own Husband. I’m Confused And I’m In love With Him. Please I Need Your Advice.

ANSWER:

I’ll Start By Welcoming You Into God’s Lovely And Most Blessed Family. Your Ex Did Well By Being The Channel Through Which God Used To Bring You Home. I’ll Add Here As Regards Your Confused State That God Is Not An Author Of Confusion. Your Love For Him Maybe The Cause Of Your Confusion Because Our Emotions Prevent Us From Making Right Decisions. But All The Same, Go To God In Prayers And He’ll Make All Things Clear To You.

I’ll Commend Your Ex For Asking You To Seek The Lord’s Face Concerning Marriage. It Shows That

How To Handle Sexual Feelings (9).. By Samson Ajilore..

 Unholy Intimacy& Un-sanctified Privacy..

                                                       

Do Not Keep Unholy Intimacy With The Opposite Sex. If You Have Sexual Feelings And There Is No Opposite Sex Alone With You, You’re Safer Than Having It When You’re Alone With An Opposite Sex In A Room. The Bible Says That We Should Put On Christ And Not Provide For The Flesh To Manifest Its Lust In Us. “Let Us Walk Properly, As In The Day, Not In Revelry And Drunkenness, Not In Lewdness And Lust, Not In Strife And Envy. But Put On The Lord Jesus Christ, And Make No Provision For The Flesh, To Fulfill Its Lusts” (Rom.13:13-14).

 The Weymouth New Testament (WNT) Puts The Fourteenth Verse Like This, “On The Contrary, Clothe Yourselves With The Lord Jesus Christ, And Make No Provision For Gratifying Your Earthly Cravings” (Rom. 13:14 WNT). People Give So Much Attention To Sexual Passions And Other Carnal Cravings But The Flesh Shouldn’t Be Given So Much Attention.

If We Learn To

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He’s Too Shy To Take The First Step. Is It Alright With Me Taking The First Step??

Hello Beloved, I Have A Question. I Really Like This Guy, But He's Too Shy To Take The First Step (I Know This Because I've Known Him For A Long Time.) How Do I Know If God Is Alright With Me Taking The First Step? I've Been Praying About It For A Long Time Now... But Still No Answer. Is God Silently Telling Me To Let It Go? Or Am I Being Too Impatient For His Answer?               

                                      

ANSWER:

My Dear, One Thing That Should Be Made Very Clear To Us Is That Most Time, God Does Not Answer Questions That We Already Know The Answer To. When He Seems Silent After You’ve Prayed And Prayed, It Either Means That The Time Is Not Yet Right OR You Already Know The Answer. If It’s A “NO”, He Will Let You Know Without Delay Or Allow You To Outgrow That Request.

I’ve Also Come To Know That When We’re Asking If Something Is Right Or Wrong, Deep Down In Our Hearts, We

How Best Can I Confirm The Right Marriage Partner?

Dear Beloved, How Best Can I Confirm The Right Marriage Partner? Do I Have To Hear A Voice Or Dream About It? Is It Spiritual Or Physical? Does It Have To Be A Prophecy? Do I Have To See A Vision? Can A Pastor Or Spiritual Leader Choose For You? As A Woman Do You Have To Propose Or Just Wait For Some Guy To Come To You? Is There An Age Limit To Marriage?

ANSWER:
Wow! My Dear, You’re Really Loaded With Questions So I’ll Take Them One By One. First Of All, You Can Best Confirm The Right Marriage Partner By Relying On God’s Divine Wisdom And Trusting His Choice Of The Correct Man/Woman For You. If You Don’t Trust Him Completely Or Try To Smartly Act With Your Limited Wisdom, Then There Are Bound To Be Problems Along The Way

Secondly, Hearing From God Can

How To Handle Sexual Feelings (8).. By Samson Ajilore..

The Word has got all the answers!

“How can a young person keep his life pure? [He can do it] by holding on to your Word. (Psalm 119:9 GW).

The Scripture above makes it clear that the only way to keep our life pure is by holding on to the Word. Now to hold on to something means that you’re intimate with that thing. We must learn to fellowship with the Word through constant meditation and practice. If our mind is filled with the Word, our life will be filled with it. Until the Word becomes the absolute controller of our life, we’re not going to keep a pure life. We must keep our passions under the authority of God’s Word. “God's will is for you to be holy, so stay away from all sexual sin” (1Thess. 4:3 NLT). 

To control our sexual passions, sometimes we have to learn how to

My Lover Is In Love With Another. What Should I Do?

Dear Beloved, What Are You To Do When Your Lover Who Claims To Love You So Much Is In Love With Another?

ANSWER:
In Sincerely Answering Your Question, There’s Really Nothing You Can Do. If Your Lover Who “Claims” To Love You So Much Is Now In Love With Another Person, It Means He/She Never Really Loved You In The First Place And Also That It Is Not Of God. So It Is Best The Relationship Got Broken Now Than Waste More Precious Years Of Your Life.

A Relationship That Is Of God Or Has Received God’s Consent Would Never Dissolve Just Like That Because God Never