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Thursday, August 16, 2012

How Can I Be Certain That A Relationship I’m In Will End In Marriage??


Dear Beloved, How Can I Know That A Leading Is From GOD? How Can I Be Certain That A Relationship That I'm In Will End In Marriage?

ANSWER:
You Can Know A Leading Is From God When Everything Aligns With The Word Of God. You Cannot Have A Leading To Become Engaged To A Married Man And Say It’s From God. Any Leading That Does Not Conform To Biblical Standards Is Not A True One But False.

You Can Be Certain That A Relationship That You’re In Will Lead To Marriage When God Confirms The Person To You. You Cannot

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

How Can I Help This Lady??


Dear Beloved, How Can You Help This Lady? She Had Been Involved In A Relationship And Got A Baby And Really Depressed To The Extent Of Leaving The Man Who’s The Father Of Her Child. I Need To Help Her But Don’t Know How To Start.

ANSWER:
The First Question To Ask Here Is This; Is She Married To The Man? If No, Then There's No Reason Staying With A Man Who's Not Your Husband Simply Because You Had A Baby For Him. That’s The Same Thing As Living In Sin (Fornication).

From The Way You Asked Your Question, I Take It To Mean That

Monday, August 13, 2012

T-R-U-S-T CONCLUSION – PART THREE..



 Here’s The Recap/Summary Of The Last Letter – “T” – As I Finally Bring To An End, The Series On The Acronym Of TRUST..

TALK-ABOUT-EVERYTHING: Are There Secrets You Know That When Found Out, Might Break Your Relationship? Now Is The Best Time To Confide In Your God-Approved Partner, Un-Burden Your Heart To Him/Her. It Is During Courtship/Engagement That Any Previous Lifestyle That May Affect Childbearing Should Be Discussed With Your Partner. It Is Dangerous To Hide Such Things, Only To Open It Up After Wedding.

Is It Abortion Done When You Were Still An Unbeliever? Is It Any Sexually Transmitted Disease Before You Became Born-Again? Prayerfully

Thursday, August 09, 2012

Should I Pursue Her Further ‘Cos She Seems To Be In Love With Her Ex??


Hi Beloved, I Have A Question But Also A Request. I Met This Girl For Whom I Care Deeply. We Are Not In A Relationship – We Are At This Stage Only Friends. She Seems To Be In Love With Her Ex Who Has Hurt Her And Cheated On Her Time And Time Again. They Also Have Not Been In A Relationship For More Than Two Years Now And She Has Not Been In A Relationship Since Then Though She Does See Him From Time To Time.
I Feel He Is Only Using Her. I Have Asked Her To Go Out With Me At Times And We Always Seem To Have A Good Time. At Times, It Does Seem She Likes Me But Then She Had Said To Others Hurtful Things Like ‘I Irritate Her’. I Do Feel In My Heart That We Could Be A Good Match But My Request And Question Is; Should I Pursue Her Further And Try To Win Her Heart Or Is It Better To Leave It? I Would Like Someone To Please Pray For Me And Give Me Some Godly Advice As The Holy Spirit Leads Him/Her.

ANSWER:
I Would Advise You To Leave Pursuing Her Further As To Win Her Heart Because From What You Said In Your Question, She’s Still In Love With Her Ex And She Might Only Use You As A “REBOUND” Which Could Be Very Hurtful When She Finally Decides To Move Ahead In Her Life Without You.

Secondly, I Didn’t See You Calling Her A

Tuesday, August 07, 2012

I’m Finding It Hard To Forget Though I've Forgiven Her..


Dear Beloved, There's Something My Fiancée Did To Me, I Have Forgiven Her But Still Find It Difficult To Forget. What Should I Do?

ANSWER:
As I Pondered Over Your Question, This Adage Came To My Mind, “To Err Is Human And To Forgive Is Divine.” That Word ‘Divine’ Means Taking The Very Nature Of God – Forgiving Others Just As In Christ Jesus, God Forgave Us (Ephesians 4:32). God Forgives Us Totally And Expects Us To Do The Same As His Children.

It Takes The Grace Of God To

Monday, August 06, 2012

T-R-U-S-T CONCLUSION – PART TWO ..




Here Is The Recap/Summary Of The Next Two (2) Letters – “U” And “S” – As I Conclude The Series On The Acronym Of TRUST..


U-NDERSTANDING: This Is About Getting To Know What Makes Your Partner “Tick”. What Makes Him/Her Talk And Reason They Way They Talk And Reason, Knowing What Makes Them Happy Or Angry And Being Able To Say With All Confidence That You Know Your Partner. A Way Of Achieving This Would Start From