What Can You Do If Your Partner Finds It Hard To Control His Emotions Around You??

Dear Beloved, What If Your Partner Who You Are Convinced To Be The Will Of God Still Finds It Difficult To Control His Emotions When You Are Together Though A Christian. What Can You Do To Stop It?

ANSWER:

In As Much As I’ll Advice You To Avoid Being Together With Him Especially In Private Places, One Question I Need To Ask Is This; A Man That Finds It Hard To Control His Sexual Emotions Around You Will Also Find It Hard To Control His Emotions Around Other Ladies; So How Do You Plan To Put His Sexual Emotions In Check?

If It Is About You, I Can Easily Advice You On How To Control Your Sexual Emotions With The Help Of 

The Holy Spirit Of Course, But This Is About Your Partner And Even When You Help Him Control His Emotions When You’re With Him, Who Would Help Him When You’re Not There? Being Just A Christian Is Not Enough; He Needs To Become Born Again In Christ Jesus.

When We Become Born Again, The Change Occurs In Our Spirit But We Also Have To Work On Our Mind Which Influences Our Bodies And That Is Why We Are Told In Rom.12:1b To Present Our Bodies As A Living Sacrifice, Holy And Acceptable To God, Which Is Our Reasonable Service. When We Do This, We Honour God With Our Bodies.

                                                                     

It Goes Further To Say In Verse 2 That We Should Not Conform To This World’s Standard But Rather Be Transformed By The RENEWAL OF OUR MINDS So As To Prove What Is That Good, Acceptable, And Perfect Will Of God. As Born Again Christians, We Must Make Sure To Do Away With All Fleshy Desires That War Within Us And Put On Christ Jesus Because We’re Dead To Sin And His Spirit Is Alive In Us.

Finally, On Your Part, Avoid Visiting Him Alone In His House If He Has A Place Of His Own. Do Not Sit Close To Him On A Chair If He Has A Tendency To Touch Or Caress You Whenever You’re Close To Him. Avoid Conversations That Arouses His Sexual Needs Rather Let Phil. 4:8 Be Your Watch Word. But Above All, Let Him Not Just Be A Christian But A Genuine Born Again Believer In Christ Jesus. Shalom