Happy New Year..

H  A  P  P  Y 

N  E  W 

Y  E  A  R!!!

You’re Not Reading This By Accident..

No, God knew before you were born that you would be here in this moment. He planned to get your attention for just a few seconds so He could say this to you: “ I've seen every hurt in your life, and I've never stopped loving you. You matter to me. I love you more than you will ever know. I made you to love you, and I've been waiting for you to love me back.”

God is saying, “I want the rest of your life to be the best of your life. I’m with you, and I’m for you. I want to save you from your past. I want to save you for the purpose for which I made you. And I want to save you by my grace. If you’ll let me do that, I will give you peace with me, peace of me, and peace with other people. But you have to open the door and receive the Christmas gift.”

If you gave me a Christmas gift and I never opened it, you would be disappointed. And it would be a worthless gift, because

God's Personal Promises Of Love To You This Christmas..

Greetings to you all in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. As this would be the last message before Christmas, we wish you the best of the Christmas season with these promises of love from our Lord Himself. 

May we never forget the reason for the celebration – CHRIST – and the message of love and giving; For God So LOVED the world that He GAVE. Be blessed as you read on..

Isa.43:4 – Since you are precious and honoured in my sight, and because I LOVE YOU, I will give men in exchange for you, and people in exchange for your life..

Isa.54:10 – Though the mountains be shaken and the hill be removed, yet my unfailing LOVE FOR YOU will not be shaken nor

Weekend Quote..

FLEE FROM SEXUAL IMMORALITY. 

ALL 

OTHER SINS A MAN 

COMMITS 

ARE OUTSIDE HIS BODY, 

BUT HE 

WHO SINS SEXUALLY 

SINS 

AGAINST HIS OWN BODY

(I Cor.6:18)..

She Wants Sex Before Marriage..

Hi Beloved, my girl is now my biggest problem. She wants to have sex with me now before marriage and I told her no sex before marriage but she is insisting on having sex with me before & after marriage. Please what do I do now because I love my girl so much?

ANSWER:

Dear Passy, I thank you for asking this question here and seeking a Godly advice. Please what she wants is to make you get involved in FORNICATION which is a SIN.

If she really loves you, she will not ask you to compromise your principles which is in line with the Word of God and she'll

JESUS’ LOVE LETTER TO YOU..

As you prepare your heart for the joy and message of Christmas, here is a reminder that Jesus loves you, actually came to earth and walked as man because of you, and He's forever hopeful that you'll invite Him into your heart and life..

Dear Friend,

How are you? I just had to send you a note to tell you how much I care about you. I saw you yesterday as you were talking with your friends; I waited all all day hoping you’ll want to talk with me, too. I gave you a sunset to close your day and a cool breeze to rest you, and I waited.

You never came. It hurt me – but I still love you because

Weekend Quote..

THE BODY 

IS NOT MEANT FOR 

SEXUAL IMMORALITY, 

BUT FOR THE LORD, 

AND THE LORD FOR THE BODY

(1 Cor.6:13b).. 

Can I Fight For Love If My Parents Disapprove?

Dear Beloved, is it appropriate to fight for love if your parents disapprove it? 
[Teenage advice]

ANSWER:

My dear, thanks for seeking a Godly answer to your question. I'll be very honest with you. It is NOT appropriate to fight for love if your parents DISAPPROVE of it.

If your parents disapprove of any love relationship, it is not wise to disobey or disregard their counsel because God told us to honour them in the fifth(5^th) commandment and when we do so even if their decisions are

Ten Lies Of Pornography - A Review..

Greetings to you all in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. We've been going through the "Ten Lies Of Pornography" and finally, even though there was a break because I was hospitalized - though back now, here's the summary of the whole messages:

(1) Women Are Less Than Human. (2) Women Are A Sport. (3) Women Are Property. (4) Little Kids Should Have Sex. (5) Good Sex Requires 

Please Bear With Me..

DUE TO SOME CIRCUMSTANCES BEYOND MY CONTROL, I'VE NOT BEEN ABLE TO KEEP POSTING MESSAGES..

PLEASE BEAR WITH ME AS I'LL SOON BE BACK..

Remain Richly Blessed..

Weekend Quote..

THE FIRST DUTY OF LOVE 

IS TO 

LISTEN..

I Do Love My Hubby And Don't Want To Lose Him..

Dear Beloved, I do have a problem – My hubby & I. We have been apart since Nov. last year up till now.  We don’t see or talk to each other and when I try calling him, he won’t pick my calls but he always ask my friend how I’m doing.  I’m now afraid that he might marry again. I do love my hubby so much & know and believe that he loves me too. Please help me.

ANSWER:

I'll start by thanking you for confiding in me and seeking a Godly solution to your marriage relationship. I might not fully know what caused the break between you and your husband but God personally said in the book of Malachi that He hates divorce or one's putting away of his wife.

My advice to you is this: if you know where your

Ten Lies Of Porn – Conclusion(4)..

Is There Any Freedom from Porn Addiction?

Pornography entraps you with lies. In contrast, God can lead us into truth. Jesus said, "If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free." 

Those who heard Jesus say this were offended and countered, "We have never been slaves of anyone, how can you say that we shall be set free?" And Jesus explained that people are enslaved to sin, but that He can set you free.

Sin not only enslaves us, but it distances us from God. And no one is

Weekend Quote..

WITHOUT CHRIST IN YOUR LIFE, YOU CANNOT TRULY AND FULLY LOVE ANYONE BECAUSE GOD IS THE AUTHOR OF LOVE..

Ten Lies Of Porn – Conclusion(3)..

Porn Addiction: Am I Addicted?

If you see any of these patterns in your life, you need to put the brakes on right now. Is porn becoming more and more in control of your life? Do you have trouble putting it down? Do you keep going back for more?

What Can I Do?

The first thing you've got to do is admit that you struggle with pornography. Believe me, you are not strange or unusual if you do. Millions of men and women are at various stages in the struggle with porn. It's really not surprising. 

The porn industry has spent billions of dollars trying to snare you. Is it really shocking that they have

Weekend Quote..

THERE ARE CERTAIN PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT MEANT TO FIT IN YOUR LIFE NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU WANT THEM TO. REALIZE IT NOW AND LET THEN GO..

Is Teenage Dating Appropriate??

Dear Beloved, what are your views about Teenage Dating? Is it appropriate? 
And how can a teenager stay godly and focused in an environment filled with distraction and ungodliness? Thanks once again.

ANSWER:

Hi dear, I don’t support teenage dating because it is not supported by the Word of God. Teenagers can be friends and go out together to visit some lovely sights around town but that term called “relationship” is NOT YET for them.

I say this because the teen-age is filled with

Ten Lies Of Porn – Conclusion(2)..

Porn Addiction – The Pull of Pornography:

Not everyone who sees porn will become addicted. Some will just come away with toxic ideas about women, sex, marriage, and children. However, some will have some kind of emotional opening that allows the addiction to really grab hold. 

The porn companies don't mind at all if you become completely addicted to their product. It's great for business. For porn addicts, it has been found that there are different

Weekend Quote..

IMMATURE LOVE SAYS 

I LOVE YOU 

BECAUSE 

I NEED YOU.. 

MATURE LOVE SAYS 

I NEED YOU

BECAUSE 

I LOVE YOU..

Making Distance Relationships Work..

Please beloved, can u speak on keeping distance relationship and making it work in Godly perspective?

ANSWER:

Hi dear, I can give you some advice here because I'm engaged to a Christian brother and we're miles apart but it doesn't faze nor disturb me because I trust him and he truly knows that he's answerable to God and not man(me).

The first point to note in every Godly relationship is

Ten Lies Of Porn – Conclusion(1)..

Bottom Line of Porn Addiction:

Pornography makes a profit from the ruined lives of young women and entraps men who will spend lots of time AND money succumbing to their product.

We might think that the things we see and hear don't affect us. Yet we all admit that good music, good movies and good books add a lot to our lives. They can relax us, educate us, move us or inspire us. Just as uplifting media can benefit us, pornographic images can negatively affect us.

Images are not always neutral. They can

Weekend Quote..

A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP 

IS NOT IN FINDING 
THE PERFECT PARTNER BUT 
BEING ABLE TO 
COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY 

WITH 
YOUR PARTNER..

Issues On Marriage..

Hi Beloved, help me with this: Marriage is an institution established by God, now what is the major goal of marriage? Is it for procreation and what is the fate of a fruitless marriage? Similarly, is marriage compulsory for a Christian? If yes, why do we have celibates in our midst?

ANSWER:

Hi dear, your question is packed full of many questions but I will try taking them one by one.

First of all, the MAJOR GOAL(s) of marriage as written in Gen.1:28 are (a) be fruitful and increase in number (b)

Ten Lies Of Pornography(10)..

Women Should Be Degraded:

Most often than not, women, in pornographic films have been shown to be a little above dummies(toys/dolls). We see these should-have-been-confident women in pitiful and vile positions yet “seemingly” enjoying the whole torturous scenes.

Porn is often full of hate speech against women. Women are shown being tortured and humiliated in hundreds of sick ways and weeping/begging for more. Does this

Weekend Quote..

SOMETIMES, WE GET SO USED 

TO HOLDING ON 

THAT WE 

FORGET HOW TO LET GO..

How Do I Choose The Ideal Partner?

Dear Beloved, God bless u. I have been following ur messages and I think you may be one of the people who may help me in ministry. I do counsel people alright but I need more views. What is the procedure one should follow to choose the ideal partner and how can one be sure that such is the right fellow since there are a lot of voices that speak to us from the spiritual realms? I will appreciate ur views.

ANSWER:

Thanks my brother for the encouragements and for following the messages closely.

The ONLY procedure one should follow in choosing THE IDEAL PARTNER is The WORD of GOD and the confirmation of HIS WORD.

When the time is right for a genuine believer to settle down, God will definitely speak and 

Ten Lies Of Pornography(9)

Illegal Sex Is Fun:

God created a man and woman and introduced the act of lovemaking which bonds the couple. He made sex beautiful and dignifying because it bonds not just the bodies but the spirits and souls as well.

But pornographic scenes often has illegal or dangerous elements thrown in to make sex more "interesting". It suggests that you can't enjoy sex if it isn't

Weekend Quote..

JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE IS ALWAYS

THERE FOR YOU

DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO TAKE

HIM/HER FOR GRANTED..

She’s In Love With Someone Else..

Dear Beloved, If you love someone and have sought the face of God concerning it and got to know that it’s the will of God but the person said she is in love with someone else, how do you handle it?

ANSWER:

Hi dear, if you have sought the face of God and are very sure that He said the lady is meant to be with you, then don’t give up. Continue trusting God to meet and confirm you to that lady too.

But one thing you must know is that if the lady is an

What Love Is And What It's Not..

If you love someone because you think he/she is gorgeous, then it’s not love. It’s “Infatuation”.

If you love someone because you think that you shouldn’t leave him/her because others think that you shouldn’t, then it’s not love. It’s “Compromise”.

If you love someone because you think you cannot live without his/her touch, then it’s not love. It’s “Lust”.

If you love someone because you’ve been

Ten Lies Of Pornography(8)..

Women Like Rape:

Rape has been defined as (a man) forcing someone to have sex with him against their will. Most often, rape occurs in a very subtle form – using clever and indirect methods – and has permeated our countries mostly as a result of exposing ourselves to porn.

"When she says no, she means yes" is a typical porn scenario. Women are shown being raped, fighting and kicking at first, and then starting to like it. Porn teaches men to enjoying

Weekend Quote..

IN A RELATIONSHIP, 

YOU DESERVE TO SMILE AND BE HAPPY. 

DON'T LET ANYONE 

IN THE NAME OF "LOVE" TAKE THAT AWAY 

FROM YOU..

True And Real Love Revealed..

Love Is Practical And Not Just In Words..

Working with I Corinthians 13:4: which reads; Love never gives up, Love cares more for others than for self, Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have, Love doesn’t strut, Love doesn’t have a swelled head(TM), the question to ask now is this; but how do we know when love is present? What are the practical effects of love?

Love suffers long; That is love reacting. Love puts up with many things. Peter had to learn a lesson in love when he asked how many times he should forgive, Love doesn't show impatience because it forbears.

Love is kind; Here is the positive side of love's patience - kindness. A great preacher of the past said:

Ten Lies Of Pornography(7)..

Prostitution Is Glamorous:

We may wonder why prostitution is no longer hidden but legalized in most countries but all these have their roots in pornographic movies. It subtly injects into us the practice of homo-sexuality, lesbianism and multiple sex partners at the same time.

Now, gay marriages have also been legalized in most countries and even in some churches.

Porn paints an exciting picture of prostitution. In reality, many of the women portrayed in pornographic material are

Weekend Quote..

IT IS NOT HARD TO FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL 

TELL YOU THAT THEY LOVE YOU. 

THE HARD PART IS FINDING SOMEONE WHO WILL 

SAY THOSE WORDS AND ACTUALLY 

MEAN THEM..

Special Edition: For The Married; Give Your Marriage a Tune-Up!

...be kind to one another, tender hearted... Ephesians 4:32

The secret to closeness in marriage is not sparkling conversation or shared interests or incredible sex. As good as those are, the secret is practising plain, old-fashioned thoughtfulness and kindness. It's the stuff we learn when we're young and forget when we're too busy: things like respect, sensitivity, attentiveness and caring. If your marriage needs a tune-up, start doing these four things. First, practise 'hug therapy'. When you're at odds with each other, remember this: 'Hearts may agree though heads differ'. A hug works wonders. When we touch

Ten Lies Of Pornography(6)..

A Woman's Value Depends On The Attractiveness Of Her Body:

This is an area that has eaten deep into our society today. Everybody – both male and female believe that if a lady is not tall, slim, sexy, shapely(perfectly rounded) and flaunts it, then she’s nothing but an object which can be considered as a second choice. Therefore, our markets are filled with all manner of lightening creams, spot-removers; anti-aging creams etc. and women are seriously patronizing them.

Less attractive women are ridiculed in porn. They are called dogs, whales, pigs or worse, simply because they don't fit into porn's criteria of the "perfect" woman. Porn doesn't care about

Weekend Quote..

NEVER BE MADE TO FEEL LIKE YOU'RE UGLY AND WORTHLESS.

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND AMAZING WITHIN;

AND ONE DAY,

SOMEONE WILL SHOW YOU THAT..

Any Hope For Me After Rejecting So Many Guys?

I'm 21yrs so many guys are asking me out some even promise 2 marry me, but I'm not ready yet coz I don’t want 2 rush in 2 a relationship that will end me in pains as I'm still seeking 4 admission into the university. My question is this: will I still see a guy that will marry me after I’ve rejected so many guys? Please help me out.

ANSWER:

Hi dear, thanks for seeking a Godly counsel here. My answer to your question is that whenever God is ready for you, He will give you a husband that He chose specially for you so do not fear that no one will marry you after rejecting so many guys.

You're 21yrs and still have your studies and life to face and most of those guys are really not serious about

Ten Lies Of Pornography(5)..

Good Sex Requires Super-Human Energy:

Porn makes you believe that sex requires endless energy and passion. In reality, the men and women portrayed in pornographic movies are constantly on hard drugs which give them the extra energy to perform endlessly.

Moreover, movies are made in cuts and joined at the end of the shoot but they make you believe in super-human power and if care is not taken, in marriage, you will tend to think less of your partner who’s only human and start cheating on him/her looking for the person will super-human energy.

This particular lie affects the men more than the ladies because they are expected to perform

Weekend Quote..

WHEN YOU DEVELOP AN INFATUATION WITH SOMEONE, YOU'LL ALWAYS FIND A REASON TO BELIEVE THAT THE PERSON IS THE RIGHT ONE FOR YOU..

BUT

IN REALITY, THAT IS NOT ALWAYS TRUE..

Help! His Love Is Becoming Unbearable..

I love my fiancé but he doesn’t trust me. He always want things done his way even if it’s 2 my disadvantage. I’m not pleased by the way he treats me and the fact that he doesn’t want any1 around me apart 4rm himself. Even I’m forced 2 do away with some of my friends and it’s becoming unbearable. Please I need your advice.

ANSWER:

Hi Emmy, your fiancé is trying to control your life and that is really not possible because we cannot control people as much as we try or want to do that. He has some trust issues to deal with and if he doesn’t deal with it, he can never trust you. The two people in every relationship deserve equal respect from each other.

He should not force you to give up your friends and people around you if he really respects you. He’s supposed to put your needs before his needs if

Ten Lies Of Pornography(4)..

Little Kids Should Have Sex:

Most times, we wonder at the rate child trafficking, child abuse and other forms of child malpractices are on the increase but its root can be found in the subtle psychological influence of pornography whereby women are dressed as little kids and behave as such too to win over their male counterparts. This injects into most men the thoughts of molesting and sexually abusing babies and little kids, even their children in some cases.

One of the biggest sellers in pornography is imitation of "child" porn. The women are "made-up" to look like little girls by wearing pony tails, little girl shoes, holding a teddy bear. The message of the pictures and cartoons is that

Love Quotes For Your Weekend(20)..

Never give up on finding LOVE because at the end of the road when you finally do find it, you’ll be glad you never stopped..

To be LOVED and chosen by a good man who truly LOVES and fears God is the best thing that can happen to any woman..

Every woman deserves a man who LOVES and respects her, and every man deserves a woman who appreciates his LOVE and respect..

You can lose the awareness of LOVE, but never LOVE itself. LOVE is what we are..

One of our purpose in this world is to LOVE others because we are the children of God and God is LOVE..

Wishing you the best of the weekend. Remain richly blessed..

Help! I'm Always Aroused Around Women..

I'm Emmanuel. My problem is I am always sexually aroused anytime my body comes into contact with a lady either old or young. I find it very difficult to understand and what might be the cause? Please help me out.

ANSWER:

Hi Emmanuel, thanks for choosing to seek a Godly counsel about this serious matter. Becoming sexually aroused when your body comes in a close contact with a female body is quite natural but the frequency you mentioned is a bit alarming. You said "anytime" your body comes into contact with a lady and I take that to mean "ANYTIME" and this is not natural. The causes might be any of the following:

Firstly, maybe you think a lot about women in general - both old and young - and from what's happening to you, those thoughts

Ten Lies Of Pornography(3)..

Women Are “Property”:

Pornography unconsciously injects the idea on our minds that women are nothing but properties to be purchased and kept, used and discarded when tired of them. Unfortunately, even some ladies are buying into this misconception thereby allowing themselves to be treated as rags.

Most men find it so easy to man-handle and turn women into punching bags because they believe they own them since they spend on them or paid their bride-price. These unfounded beliefs stem from years of watching porn and allowing those subtle ideas infest our minds instead of renewing our mind with the Word of God.

We've all seen the pictures of the slick car with the sexy girl draped over it. The unspoken message, "Buy one and you get them both." Hard-core

Love Quotes For Your Weekend(19)..

Never give up on LOVE because there is always someone who’ll LOVE you just the way God created you..

You don’t have to simply keep telling someone you LOVE them. They have to see it in your face and words all the time..

True LOVE is always doing and saying the right thing even if it hurts you or your loved ones in the process..

LOVE does not require you to be perfect. It requires you to forgive, over and over again..

Immature LOVE says I LOVE you because I need you. Mature LOVE says I need you because I LOVE you..

Remain richly blessed as I wish you the best of weekends..

How Can I Get Out Of Pornography?

Hi beloved. I thank you for the series of Ten Lies of Pornography(2) and my question is this; how are we able to get out of this? Well done and God bless you. Keep it up!

ANSWER:

Thanks Sene and God bless you too. The way to get out of being addicted to pornography is through these following ways;

 First of all, go to God in prayers and ask Him to help you destroy the idol of pornography in your life because anything that controls us is our master and our god. Since you’re asking according to His will because He said you must have no other god but Him, He’ll surely come to your aid.

                                                        

Secondly, with the power of Christ in you as a born-again Christian, remove, destroy all magazines, vcd's, dvd's, novels, music, porn sites etc that

Ten Lies Of Pornography(2)..

Women Are A "Sport":

Porn subconsciously injects in its viewers the idea that women are a “sport” by the way they treat and handle the women involved in their movies. They count them as conquests which they win and should receive medals for. This evil notion when not checked can permeate the minds of the viewers and cause them to begin thinking of women as “sports” and from thinking to actualization because “as a man thinks in his heart, so is he”.

Some sports magazines have a "swimsuit" issue. This suggests that women are just some kind of sport. Porn views sex as a game and in a game; you have to "win", "conquer", or "score". Men who buy into this view like to

Love Quotes For Your Weekend(18)..

God LOVES you! To prove it, He made all beauties and pleasures of nature for you to enjoy..

Giving LOVE is the greatest pleasure of life..

A person who really LOVES you will never let you go no matter how hard or bleak the situation or future is..

LOVE who LOVES you because they feed your LOVE. LOVE who hates you because they need your LOVE..

In every relationship, you deserve to smile and be happy. Don’t let anyone in the name of LOVE take that away from you..

Remain richly blessed as I wish you the best of the weekend..

Is It Possible To Date Your Ex-Girl Now That You're In Christ?

Hi Beloved, my question is this; is it okay to be in a relationship with a lady that you've dated when in the world, now that you’re in Christ?

ANSWER:

Hi Joseph, let me start by thanking you for choosing to get your answers on love and relationship issues from the right and Godly source(this blog) and your encouragements both here and on our page on facebook. Your inputs are greatly appreciated. I will answer your question based on two premises:

Firstly, if the lady in question has left the world too and is presently a new creature in Christ Jesus, then there’s nothing wrong in being in a relationship with her. I say this because

Ten Lies Of Pornography(1)..

Women Are Less Than Human:

In most pornographic movies and magazines, the way women are treated and the parts, dances and positions given them to perform portrays them as mere playthings and less human. The women in Playboy magazine are called "bunnies," making them cute little animals or "playmates," making them a toy. 

Penthouse magazine calls them "pets." Porn often refers to women as animals, playthings, or body parts. Some pornography shows only the body or the genitals and doesn't show the face at all. The idea that women are real human beings with thoughts and emotions is played down thereby subconsciously filling your mind with the same thought pattern.

But the Bible has the original theory on women. In Gen.1:27, it says “So God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He

Love Quotes For Your Weekend(17)..

Nobody gets tired of hearing the words “I LOVE YOU”. Tell your loved ones how much they mean to you at every opportunity..

LOVE is the essence of everything beautiful. The force behind everything wonderful..

LOVE is taking action – positive, genuine, definite action – to reach out and help others, proving your LOVE for them..

LOVE and friendship are gifts most commonly bestowed upon those who forget themselves and reach out to others..

LOVE is not an option; it is an obligation..

Remain richly blessed as I wish you the best of the weekend..

I Need To Have Someone..

"Dear readers, please I would really appreciate responses from you because it will serve as an encouragement to me. You can tick on the Reaction boxes or leave a comment. God bless you as you do so.."

Hi Beloved, I’m almost 33yrs but I don’t have anybody that I’m dating because I’m a kind of person that is shy. Not that I can’t talk to a lady but I’m still looking for a God-fearing person. What should I do now because I need to have someone?

ANSWER:

Hi dear, from your question, I can understand that you’re also a God-fearing person which is why you’re searching for a lady who fears God too. Now as a believer in Christ, have you

Ten Lies Of Pornography(Intro)..

Introduction:

Sex Out Of Context

Imagine or visualize a blazing fire in the fireplace. It's safe, warm, relaxing and romantic. Now take that same fire out of the fireplace (which was built for it) and drop it in the middle of the living room. Suddenly it becomes destructive. It can burn down the whole house and kill everyone inside. Sex is like that fire. As long as it's expressed in the protective commitment of a marriage relationship, it's wonderful, warm and romantic. But porn takes sex outside that context.

Porn is a big business that makes a lot of money and doesn't care how. They'll show you whatever they think will make you come back and buy more. It’s everywhere - on the internet, magazines, cd/dvd, novels etc. A Christian has to be extra alert to avoid them.

One of the most vital parts of mental environment is a healthy idea of who we are sexually. If these ideas are polluted, a critical part of who we are becomes twisted. The porn culture tells you that sex, love and intimacy are all the same thing. In porn, people have sex with total strangers --

Love Quotes For Your Weekend(16)..

Show people LOVE, tenderness, gentleness, patience, and respect and they’ll treat you likewise..

LOVE isn’t supposed to be a sideshow in the circus of life. Its supposed to take up all three rings..

Communication from the heart is an expression of LOVE. Write that letter or make that call today..

Set your heart free to fully live and LOVE by leaving behind the hurts of bygone days..

With every act of LOVE you do today, you weave one more golden thread in the blanket that will warm you tomorrow..

Remain blessed and have a wonderful weekend..

Scared But Want To Start A Serious Relationship..

Hi Beloved, good morning. I want to start a serious relationship but am scared because I don’t know what to do and who to choose out of two. Please help me out.

ANSWER:

A good morning to you too Chi. There’s nothing wrong in starting a serious relationship and I believe that by the word “serious”, you mean a relationship that will end in marriage. Here are some tips that will help you;

Sex Enslavement! What Should I Do?

Dear Askbeloved is it right to be at loggerheads with a girl you have loved before? I went into a relationship with these girl two years ago and had sex with her for three times. As if I'm be bewitched and charmed by the girl, I found it very difficult to refrain from her grips of sex enslavement until I came to myself and went to one of our BIBLE STUDIES madam who upon prayers revealed she girl is a demon-possessed. Since then I have never talked to her for the past two years because if you give her the chance the way she advances and reacts is all leading to allurement and temptation. PLEASE WHAT SHOULD I DO?

ANSWER:

 I don't really think I get your question Emma but let me answer it this way: if you feel that anytime you're with this lady, you will be heavily tempted to have sexual relations with her, then I'll advice you to flee from her because the Bible tells us to flee fornication in 1Cor.6:18a.

If you also believe the madam who told you that the girl is demon possessed, then, that's all the more reason to flee from the lady because continued association with her can lead to her easily manipulating you.

Don't go confronting her by telling her that she is demon possessed and don't give her a chance in your life either but you can link her with a strong man of God who can deliver her from the demonic spirits at work in her life.

Finally, I'll also advice you personally to seek God's deliverance from the bond you’ve formed with her by having sex with her. Pray that God will break the bond and free you so that you can continue with your life afresh.

All the best dear and remain blessed..

Love Quotes For Your Weekend(15)..

LOVE is the ability to see beyond the faults of another and to discover the beauties of his or her heart..

God LOVES you and knows you personally. He will never leave you or forsake you..

Where there is LOVE, there’s a touch of the divine. Make time for LOVE in your life..

There’s no one too insignificant for God to LOVE and care for..

The tongue is a sword or a magic wand; it can cut and kill, or LOVE and heal..

Remain richly blessed as I wish you the best of the weekend filled with the LOVE and peace of God..

I Can't Afford To Lose Her..

This question is about me madam. I need your advice. I hav my lover I truly love her to my wife, now she has her sisters who are older than her but they are corned by men and they end up disappointing them so of recent this month her sis gave birth but the man said he doesn’t even know her unfortunately even the baby passed away so imagine beloved, a man to treat a girl like that. So my lover based on this, she sent me a msg in that she is scared I might be playing funs on her but beloved, I truly love her I want her to be my wife. She is my first girl in life but now I don’t know wat to talk to her that can confirm her because she can’t see wat is at my heart, I need your advice, GOD BLESS U BELOVED. Paul

ANSWER:
Hi Paul, In reply to your predicament, I will start by asking you if you have really prayed about this lady and God spoke to your spirit that she's your wife. If you're not sure, you might really love and want to marry her now but the story may change next year when you see another lady more beautiful than her.

But if you're sure she's the wife God has chosen for you, then just commit her in prayers and ask God to also speak to her heart to convince her that you're her husband. What the man did to her sister was not fair and I don't blame your lady for being scared but such is life.She has to be able to trust you.

There's nothing prayer cannot solve, so hand it over to God and patiently wait for His will concerning your marriage to come to pass. If she's your wife as ordained by God, she'll definitely understand that you're not like those men and come back to you. I hope this advice will be of help to you.

All the very best dear and remain blessed..