What Love Is And What It's Not..

If you love someone because you think he/she is gorgeous, then it’s not love. It’s “Infatuation”.

If you love someone because you think that you shouldn’t leave him/her because others think that you shouldn’t, then it’s not love. It’s “Compromise”.

If you love someone because you think you cannot live without his/her touch, then it’s not love. It’s “Lust”.

If you love someone because you’ve been

kissed by him/her, then it’s not love. It’s
“Inferiority complex”.

If you love someone because you cannot leave him/her thinking you would hurt his/her feelings, then it’s not love. It’s “Charity”.

If you love someone because you share everything with him/her, then it’s not love. It’s “Friendship”.

But if you feel the pain of the other person more than him/her even when he/she is stable and you cry for him/her, then that’s “LOVE”.

If you get attracted to other people but stay with him/her without any regrets, then that’s “LOVE”.

If you let him/her go, knowing that he/she has to go but doesn’t want to, then that’s “LOVE”.

And above all..

If you draw him/her to CHRIST and help yourselves remain sure candidates of HEAVEN against all odds, then, that’s “PURE LOVE” which is worthy of emulation..