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Monday, April 20, 2015

He Stopped Communicating With Me, I Mistakenly Lost My Virginity With Another Man, Now He’s Back And Wants To Marry Me But Blames Me For My Lost Virginity. What Should I Do?

Dear Beloved, Please Help A Friend In Need: My Fiancé Is In A State Of Bitterness. I And My Fiancé Has Been In A Very Good Relationship For Many Years Now. He Was A Very Nice And God Fearing Person. We Grew To Love Each Other. All Through Those Times He Knew I Was A Virgin And Encouraged Me To Keep It. Then All Of A Sudden He Stopped Communicating With Me And Didn't Respond To My Messages. This Went On For Long And I Became Broken Hearted Because He Was The Best Friend I Had Then. I Confided In Matured People Even My Mum And They Told Me To Move On With My Life Which I Reluctantly Did. Someone Else In My Church Approached Me For Dating, I Refused Initially But Had To Accept – Not Because I Was Really Interested But To Get My Lost Friend Out Of My Mind. All Throughout The Period Of Dating My Present Man, I Was Emotionally Unbalanced. One Day, One Thing Led To Another And He Had Sex With Me, I Was So Full Of Regrets After That Day, The Feeling I Had Was Awful. I Had To Leave Him Because He Turned Out To Be Someone I Never Desired – He Was Just The Opposite Of My Other Guy. Immediately I Left Him Still In Pain Of Giving Myself To Him, My Other Friend Re-Surfaced Back With Excuses Of How He Was Struggling To Be A Man To Come Back And Settle Down With Me. He Then Asked If I Was A Virgin, I Couldn’t Stand The Shame And Reaction From Him So I Had To Lie. After A Year, He Proposed, I Still Couldn’t Tell Him Out Of Fear. We Were Preparing For Our Marriage And I Decided To Pay Him A Visit With My Parent's Consent. One Thing Led To Another, He Had Sex With Me And Found Out. I Had To Confess And Told Him Everything. After Some Time He Forgave Me And He Is Pushing On With The Marriage But He Hasn't Been Himself. He Is Bitter, Brings Up The Past And Falls Sick From Time To Time. I Have Made Peace With God Long Ago But I Can’t Forgive Myself For Hurting Him This Way. He Is Resenting Me, He Said He Can’t Get The Thought Out Of His Mind, And That It Will Forever Live With Him, That Things Might Not Be The Way It Use To Be And Lots Of Other Things. He Said There Is Nothing I Can Do Cos I’ve Lost His Most Cherished Gift To Another Man. I Am Full Of Regrets Now. I Haven’t Been With Any Man Since Then, I Wished It Was Him But It Wasn’t Intentional. If Only He Didn’t Go, I Might Not Have Even Had Anything To Do With Another Man. I Am So Confused. What Can I Ever Do Again? I Have Prayed To God To Forgive Me And Heal Him. I Don't Know What To Do. I Only Cry And Pray Day And Night.

ANSWER:
My Dear Sister, Your Story Is A Long One But I Couldn’t Cut Much Out Because It’s Really A Heavy Burden From/In Your Heart.  A Man That Is Really Interested In Marrying You Will Not Just Disappear Like That For A Long Time Without Keeping In Touch With You – The Excuse Of Struggling To Be A Man So He Can Come And Marry You Does Not Really Make Much Sense.

What If He Returned And Met You Married, Wouldn’t He Have Continued With His Life? To Now Blame You And Refuse To Forgive You Of Your Past Because You Lost Your Virginity In The Process Is Quite A Harsh Judgement. Am I Exonerating You? NO! But Like

Saturday, March 28, 2015

Pray For Nigeria..


As Tomorrow Na Presidential Election, We Must To Panel-Beat Heaven’s Gate With Our Prayers O! So Join Me Make Wey Pray!
Baba God, Na Only Your Counsel Go Stand For This Election In Jesus’ Name O! Amen!

As You Dey See All Hearts, No Allow Bad-Belle Person - Who Fit Use Beautiful Smiles And Wonderful Words Take Deceive Us But Who No Fit Deceive You - Sit Down For Our Presidential Seat In Jesus’ Name O!

Abeg Frustrate And Disappoint All Those Politicians With Evil Agenda Against Us And Our Naija In Jesus’ Name O! Amen!
Na Peace, Untiy, Love And Progress And NEVER War, Hate, Division And Stagnation Go Be The Portion Of Our Naija In Jesus’ Name O!

Baba God, Abeg Use Your Hand Take Select The Person Whose Decisions And Agenda And Policies Go Favour Us, Our Families And Our Dear Naija In Jesus’ Name O! Amen!
Blood No Go Flow O! And We No Go Lose Any Of Our Friends And Loved Ones For This Election Period In Jesus’ Name O!

E Go Beta For Us O!
E Go Beta For Our Families And Friends O!
And E MUST To Beta For Our Naija In Jesus’ Name O! Amen!!!

The Banner And Protection Of God Over Us Na Im Love So Enjoy Am Wella This Weekend And Abeg Dey Careful O As You Dey Shine Your Eyes..
Also Try Vote As Me Go Still Try For My Area.. Make My Fingers Rest For Now...
Una Doooo!!!

Wednesday, March 25, 2015

Ten Lies Of Porn – Conclusion(2)..


Porn Addiction – The Pull Of Pornography:
Not Everyone Who Sees Porn Will Become Addicted. Some Will Just Come Away With Toxic Ideas About Women, Sex, Marriage, And Children. However, Some Will Have Some Kind Of Emotional Opening That Allows The Addiction To Really Grab Hold. 

The Porn Companies Don't Mind At All If You Become Completely Addicted To Their Product. It's Great For Business. For Porn Addicts, It Has Been Found That There Are Different
Stages Of Addiction. Let's Look At These Stages:

Early Exposure:
Most People Who Get Addicted To Porn Start Early. They See Porn When They Are Very Young And It Gets Its Foot In The Door.
Porn Addiction:
You Keep Coming Back To Porn. It Becomes A Regular Part Of Your Life. You're Hooked And Can't Quit.
Escalation:
You Start To

Monday, March 23, 2015

He Told Me That I Should Choose Between School And Marriage. I Don’t Know What To Do.

Hello Beloved, I’m 23yrs Old And In Courtship With This Man – My Mum And Dad Know Him. It Happened That I Decided Not To Go To School But Someone Advised Me To Go Since My Elder Ones Are Through With Their Education. I Made Up My Mind To Go And I Let My Fiancé Know Everything About Me Including My School Stuff. He Said That We Should Do Introduction Since Am About To Go To School But I Told Him That Am Not Ready For That Now Since My Elder Sister Has Not Done Hers Even Though She’s Through With Her Education And That He Should Wait For Me To Enter School First. Later He Told Me That I Should Choose Between School And Marriage. I Told Him That Am Going To School Since I Have Explain Everything To Him But He Said If I Go To School That I Should Forget About The Relationship. I Want You To Advise Me Because I Don’t Know What To Do. I Really Love Him And I Don’t Want To Lose Him.

ANSWER:
My Dear, As For Me, I Will Advise You To Go To School And If Your Fiancé Cannot Wait To Do Your Introduction After You’ve Entered School, Then Let Him Go 'Cos There's No Way You Can Eat Your Cake And Still Have It Since He Has Asked You To Make A Choice. You Need Your Education So That You Can Be More Productive In The Future And Be Of Greater Assistance To Your Husband.

If This Man Cannot Wait For You To Go To School But Is Already Asking You To Choose Between Him And Your Education{Though He May Be

Saturday, March 14, 2015

Weekend Advice..

When We Dey Talk Of Having Respect For God, No Be By Just Going To Church And Warming The Seats There O! If Your Fiance/Fiancee Abi Na Your Wife/Husband No Get Better Regard For God, Wahala Dey O!
You See Ehh, No Courtship/Marriage Relationship Be Smooth Ride O! Storms Must Hit Am And E Get The Kind Storm Wey Go Hit Una Wey Go Scatter That Relationship If You And Your Partner No Dey Correctly Rooted In Christ Jesus.
One Adage Say “Na Wen Breeze Blow, We Dey See Fowl Nyash” And Na True Be Dat O! So If You Never Marry, First Dig Your Own Root In Christ First So That He Go Lead You To Person Wey Don Still Dig His/Her Own Root For Inside Am Too.
If You Don Marry And Your Husband/Wife Na Sunday-Sunday Christian{Just Christian For Mouth}, Na Prayer O! Start With Yourself First Make E Dey Obvious To Your Partner Say You Don Change Wella Then Trust God To Use You Draw Your Partner Inside Christ Jesus Too.
E Don Finish For My Mouth For Now O!
I Pray Say God Go Help All Of Us ‘Cos This Marriage Matter No Be Small Thing Oo! Christ Wey Be The Rock Of Ages Go Help Us Stand So That We Go Fit Overcome Every Storm Wey Come Our Lives In Jesus’ Name O! Amen!
I Too Love Una But I Never Die For Anybody O! So Make We Throway Salute For Baba God Wey Love Us Sote He Send His Only Son Jesus To Die For Our Sins Even Wen We Still Dey Roll For Inside The Sin.
BABA GOD, ME{Beloved} I SALUTE YOU O!
I Pray Say This Weekend Go Carry Nyafu-Nyafu Blessings For All Of Us O! Amen! hear
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Wednesday, March 11, 2015

Ten Lies Of Porn – Conclusion(1)..


Bottom Line Of Porn Addiction:

Pornography Makes A Profit From The Ruined Lives Of Young Women And Entraps Men Who Will Spend Lots Of Time And Money Succumbing To Their Product.

We Might Think That The Things We See And Hear Don't Affect Us. Yet We All Admit That Good Music, Good Movies And Good Books Add A Lot To Our Lives. They Can Relax Us, Educate Us, Move Us Or Inspire Us. Just As Uplifting Media Can Benefit Us, Pornographic Images Can Negatively Affect Us.

Images Are Not Always Neutral. They Can

Monday, March 09, 2015

I Don't Know If He Is Waiting For God To Come Down And Tell Him We Are Meant For Each Other..

Dear Beloved, I'm A Single Mom With Two Kids And There's This Man I Met; He Also Has A Daughter And We Just Started Dating. He's Steadfast In Prayers Even Stronger Than Me When It Comes To Faith And Everything Concerning A Christian. We've Both Been Through A Lot From The Various Experiences We've Had. We Both Like Each Other A Lot But Due To What He Has Been Through He Keeps Saying When God Decides, I Really Need To Understand That Term "When God Decides" Cause I've Also Had My Own Experiences. I've Always Thought That God Brings People Together For A Reason And We, As Humans, Have To Work And Pray Concerning It. I Don't Know If He Is Waiting For God To Come Down And Tell Him We Are Meant For Each Other Or We Should Pray Concerning Our Relationship. How Will I Know When God Says Yes Or No. He Cares About Me And My Kids But He's Still Frightened About His Past And What He Went Through. During My Prayers Yesterday Morning Cause We're Having Prayer And Fasting In My Church, I Had A Vision About Me And The Man Celebrating Our Traditional Wedding, I Was In Tears And I Refuse To Make Up When The Make Up Artist Came, I Kept On Crying Cause I Never Expected I Will Get Married Some Day And A Call Was Put Through To Him To Talk To Me And Comfort Me Before I Dressed Up. I Want To Know If It’s Tears Of Joy Or If There's Another Interpretation To The Vision. Please Back Me Up In Prayers.

ANSWER:
My Dear Sister, First Of All, I’ll Begin By Saying That This Is One Of The Reasons Dating Is Not Supported By Me Apart From The Fact That It Does Not Have Any Scriptural Backing. In Dating, The Relationship Is Not Defined As I’m Seeing In Your Message. If It Was Defined From The Beginning, You Wouldn’t Be Asking These Questions ‘Cos You Would Know Exactly The Outcome Of Your Relationship With Him.

Coming To Your Man, I’ll Say He’s Trying To Tread Sofly And Carefully Lest What Happened

Sunday, March 01, 2015

Weekend Advice..


For Some Wey Feel Say They Really Dey In Love, This One Fit Sound Like Say E No Dey Possible But Make I Tell You; Any Love Wey Make You Disobey God No Be Love O! Na Pure Lust.

If You Say Na Because Of The Kind Love Wey You Get For The Person Make You Commit Fornication Abi Na Adultery With Am Instead Of To Tell Am No Way! Know Say Na Confusion Hold You O Cos That One Na Pure Lust!

So If Any Man Abi Na Woman Tell You Say If You No Gree For Am, He/She Go Cut Off The Relationshi...p, Abeg Gather The Strength Wey God Give You And Tell The Person Say As He/She Still Dey Talk, You Sef Don Terminate The Relationship Sharperly Because To You, Heaven Dey More Important Pass The Person!

I Pray Make Baba God Give You The Power To Stand Against Any Kind Of Sin/Evil For Your Life In Jesus’ Name, Amen!

I Too Love Una But My Love No Reach The One Wey Baba God Get For Una..
Again I Pray Say Make You Enjoy Your Weekend Wella.. :) :)