Dearest, I Welcome You To My Blog And Sincerely Pray That All You'll Be Reading Here Will Draw You Closer To Christ Jesus, Amen!

Wednesday, April 23, 2014


Do You Agree To Everything Your Partner Asks Of You In Your Relationship All In The Name Of Love? Love Is Wise And Not Stupid; It Sees Clearly And Not Blind. There Are Times When Saying No Is Absolutely Necessary Especially If You’re In An Ungodly Relationship.
**If You’re Truly Born Again, Then You Must SAY NO To Premarital Sex No Matter The Excuse Or Reason Given For It.

**You Must SAY NO To Having An Abortion For Him ‘Cos You’ve Made The First Mistake And You Don’t Have To Compound Your Sin By Making Another.

Monday, April 21, 2014

I Still Love And Want Her Back Even Though She Left Me For Another Man. Please Advice Me..

Hi Beloved, Praise Jesus! The Only Lady I've Ever Loved Backslid After Being Heart Broken By Her Youth Leader Whom She Left Me For. She Went And Got Pregnant For Another Man This Year And She's About To Deliver. The Thing Is, I’ve Never Stopped Loving Her And I Called Her Several Time This Month And Told Her To Give Her Life To Jesus And Come Back To Church And After She Has Given Birth, We'll Give What We Had Another Chance. She Told Me That She Will Think About i.e. After I Insisted. Please Advise Me.
My Brother, As I Read Your Question, A Scripture Came To Mind And It Says; Love Covers A Multitude Of Sins And Then The Story Of Prophet Hosea Came To Mind Who Married A Prostitute That Kept Going Back To That Ungodly Lifestyle Yet God Asked Him To Bring Her In And Love Her ‘Cos That’s The Relationship Between Israel And Him.
It’s Also The Relationship Between God And Us Today – While We’re Yet Sinners, Christ Died For Us And Even When We Sin And Confess It, He’s Ever Ready To Forgive Us And Cleanse Us From All Unrighteousness.

Wednesday, April 09, 2014


God Has Given Me The Strength To Wait:

It's Been Years Since I've Had Sex. I Wish I Could Say That I Totally Waited For Marriage, But I Can't. I Do Have Regrets (And, As I Said Before, They Have Lasted Much Longer Than Any Momentary Pleasures). I Have Regrets About The Way I've Treated Girls.

I Have Concerns About The Stability Of My Future Marriage (If And When I Get Married). But God Has Helped Me To Deal With My Past Acts And With My Concerns For The Future. He Is In The Process Of Changing Me, And Has Changed Me A Lot Already.

Also, God Has Given Me The Ability To Wait For Marriage To Have Sex Again. Sure,

Monday, April 07, 2014

He’s Cheating On Me But Says I Should Wait On Him. Should I Wait Or Is He Playing Me??

Dear Beloved, I Have This Boyfriend Who Is Doing His Last Year In Boston Media House. The Reason Why I Mentioned This Is Because He Is Cheating On Me With An Old Policewoman Who Has A Child. That Child Isn’t For My Boyfriend. Each And Every Time I Try To Break Up With Him, He Keeps On Saying That He Still Loves Me. Let’s Not Say We Broke Up But Let’s Call It A Break. I Mean Really Now. I Haven't Done Anything Wrong To Him, He Said I Must Give Him This Month Only; Everything Will Be Over By The End Of It. I Am Really Lost. Yes I Still Love Him. Should I Wait For Him Or He Is Playing Me? Please Help Me.

My Dear, I Believe The Answer To Your Questions Is Very Clear; Your Boyfriend Is Cheating On You And Does Not Love You. His Actions Shows He Prefers The Relationship He Has With The Policewoman Above The One He Has With You. Whether The Child Is His Or Not Does Not In Anyway Change The Situation.

Secondly, That You Still Love Him Even As He Continually Cheats On You With The Same Woman Simply Shows Your Fear Of Letting

Thursday, March 27, 2014


       I Have Found Something More Satisfying Than Sex:

I Know What You're Thinking: "Yeah, Right." But It's True. And In Fact, In A Way Sex Helped Me To Discover The Something That Outdoes It. And That Something Is Not Really A Something, It's A Someone. It's God. Just Hear Me Out On This One, I Know It Sounds Far-Fetched, But The Whole Thing Makes Sense.

God Has Created Us In Such A Way That We Can't Be Ultimately Satisfied By Anything Except Him. He Built That Into The

Monday, March 24, 2014

I’m 21 And Have This Girl In Mind For A Long Time. Should I Tell Her To Wait Or Ignore Her?

Dear Beloved, I Am A Boy Of 21years, There Is This Girl That I Have Been Glaring At For A Very Long Time And My Intuitions Tells Me That She Will Be My Wife In The Future But I Have Not Spoken To Her Because I Need To Focus On My Life. I Was Passing Her Place One Day And She Told Her Mum That She Will Want To Marry Someone Like Me. Should I Tell Her To Wait, Ignore Her Or What Is The Way Forward?

My Dear Brother, From Your Age, I Will Guess You’re Still In The University And I Don’t Think It’s Wise To Tell A Girl You Want To Marry Her So That She’ll Wait For You.

Thursday, March 13, 2014


I Don't Have To Sleep With A Woman To Know If We're "Sexually Compatible":
Sex Is Meant To Complement A Relationship, Not Be The Most Important Aspect Of It. That's What I've Found Out. It's Supposed To Be The Icing On The Cake When All The Other Aspects Of Your Relationship Are Working Well.

I've Come To Understand That The Sex Will Be Good If The Rest Of The Relationship Is Good. That's Why I Know I Don't