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Wednesday, August 03, 2011

Help! I'm Always Aroused Around Women..

I'm Emmanuel. My problem is I am always sexually aroused anytime my body comes into contact with a lady either old or young. I find it very difficult to understand and what might be the cause? Please help me out.

Hi Emmanuel, thanks for choosing to seek a Godly counsel about this serious matter. Becoming sexually aroused when your body comes in a close contact with a female body is quite natural but the frequency you mentioned is a bit alarming. You said "anytime" your body comes into contact with a lady and I take that to mean "ANYTIME" and this is not natural. The causes might be any of the following:

Firstly, maybe you think a lot about women in general - both old and young - and from what's happening to you, those thoughts
are not pure. The thoughts are very carnal and since the Bible tell us that "As a man thinks in his heart, so is he", those thoughts are now becoming visible and beginning to affect you in reality.

Secondly, maybe you engage in watching a lot of pornographic movies and I'm treating the "ten lies of pornography" now and will encourage you to follow it through till the end. Most of what we watch in porn films psychologically affects us without our knowledge because it comes in a very subtle form so those things stored in your head are beginning to emanate.

Lastly, it could also be a medical problem though most issues like yours comes from within our minds and thoughts. If you are very sure that you do not fit into the first two causes, then you might consider visiting your doctor to see what he'll say about it.

SOLUTION: There's nothing prayer, a right attitude and thinking will not correct. Pray about it always because you cannot avoid coming in contact with women sometimes but you can change how such contact affects you. I'll be praying for you.

Remain richly blessed dear..

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