Scared But Want To Start A Serious Relationship..

Hi Beloved, good morning. I want to start a serious relationship but am scared because I don’t know what to do and who to choose out of two. Please help me out.

ANSWER:

A good morning to you too Chi. There’s nothing wrong in starting a serious relationship and I believe that by the word “serious”, you mean a relationship that will end in marriage. Here are some tips that will help you;

First of all, a marriage is the union/merging of two hearts, minds and bodies to become one and it’s never to be taken lightly because for a true born-again in Christ Jesus, divorce is never an option.

So you have to start with prayers because that’s the key to unlocking the wisdom required in this step you are about to take. Any lady you start this relationship with now will end up being your wife by the grace of God so you need be very clear about it.

Secondly, there’s nothing to be scared of about what to do. Prayers will definitely clear your head and grant you the light to know the next step to take. Remember that we have not been given the spirit of fear but of love, sound mind and power.

Finally, I can see there’s a “two” to choose from and maybe, that’s the reason for the confusion. Don’t walk by sight but commit it to our Lord who sees and searches the heart of man so He will bring the right person along your path.

Remain richly blessed dear..