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Tuesday, July 31, 2012

My Boyfriend Wants Me And Our Two Girls Back But He’s Coming With Another Child. What Do I Do?

I Have Two(2) Daughters With My Boyfriend. We Stayed Together for five(5)yrs, But He Moved Out With No Reason Known By Me. I Can’t Move On Only Because I Love Him And All This Time I Waited. Now He Wants To Come Back But He Has A Child With Another Woman Which Hurts Me, Especially Now And Then When He Puts The Child’s Pictures On Facebook. If I Call Him To Come And Talk To Me Since He Wants Me Back, He Will Say That It’ll Be By Sms As He Wants To Takes His Time. I’m Just Sick Of All This And Wish I Could Just Leave Him And Stay On My Own. What Should I Do?

Answering This Question Is A Little Difficult For Me And I’ll Plead With You To Quietly Go Through This And Heed The Advice Coming Straight From God’s Heart. It Might Cause You Some Pain Or Even Anger But Believe Me When I Tell You That God Chastises Only Those He Really Loves And He Does Love You So Much As To Send His Only Son To Die And Redeem You From Your Sins.

First Of All, This Is A Christian Page Where We Speak The Truth In Love And Also Pray For Our Members. Living With A Man Who’s
Not Your Husband Is A Sin Before God – That’s Living A Life Of Fornication For Those Number Of Years And Most Times, Good Things Cannot Come Out Of Bad.

He Moved Out Without Any Reason And Hitched With Another Lady Who Had A Third Child For Him And You Waited For Him (That’s Probably Why He’s Treating You The Way He’s Doing). Allow Me To Tell You That What You Feel For Him Is Not Love. True Love Is Not Blind – It Sees More, Not Less. But Because It Sees More, It Is Willing To See Less.

Dependency Or Thinking You Cannot Live Without Someone Is Not Love. We Should Depend Totally ONLY On God Who’s The Almighty And Creator Of Heaven And Earth. Once We Miss This Major Point, We’re In For A Lot Of Disappointments/Heartbreaks. I Believe That’s Why He’s Still Taking His Time And Playing With Your Feelings.

My Advice To You Is To Repent From Your Sins, Confess Them To God Who Alone Forgives Totally, And Never Return To That Life Of Fornication And To That Man Except He Genuinely Repents Too And Marries You Properly. If You’ll Become A Born-Again Believer In Christ Jesus, His Blood Will Make You Whole And It Shall Be Well With You.

Isaiah 1:18 – “Come Now Let Us Reason Together, Says The Lord. Though Your Sins Are Like Scarlet, They Shall Be As White As Snow; Though They Are Red As Crimson, They Shall Be Like Wool.”

John 3:16 – “For God So Loved The World That He Gave His One And Only Son, That Whoever Believes In Him Shall Not Perish But Have Eternal Life.”
Verse 17 – “For God Did Not Send His Son Into The World To Condemn The World, But To Save The World Through Him.”

Remain Richly Blessed..


  1. You have just told her the real truth.

    1. Thanks dear and God bless you for your contribution..


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