Is Exchanging The E-Mail Or Facebook
Password So Important In A Relationship? If Your Partner Doesn’t Want To Give You
Her/His E-Mail Or Password, Does It Mean He/She Is Cheating On You?
I’m Involved
In A Long-Distance Relationship And My Partner Asked For My E-Mail And Password
Which I Gave To Him. But He Said They Didn’t Match And I’m Lying To Him. Now We
Are Always Fighting ‘Cos He Thinks I’m Cheating On Him Or Hiding Something
From Him But I’m Honest And Love This Guy So Much Though He Seems Not To Trust
Or Believe Me.
He Doesn’t Call Or Text Me. If I Don’t Call Or Text Him, We Won’t
Talk To Each Other. I’m Afraid ‘Cos I Don’t Want To Lose Him. I Love Him So
Much. Please Help Me. What Do I Do To Make Him Understand How I Feel?
ANSWER:
The Exchange Of E-Mail
And Facebook Passwords Is Not Mandatory For All Relationships But If Both
Partners Want It, Then They Can Go For It. There’s
Nothing Wrong In Exchanging
E-Mail And Password With Your Partner Because It Shows You Trust Each Other,
Has Nothing To Hide And It Also Solidifies The Relationship.
What You Have To Do Here
Since You're Involved In A Distant Relationship Is To Try And Meet With Him. If
It's More Convenient For You To Go Then Go And If It's More Convenient For Him
To Come, Then Let Him Come. I Say This Because, In Distant Relationships, Not
Everything Can Be Settled On Phone Like I Said In One Of My Posts On The
Page.
When Both Of You Meet,
Then Both Of You Can Go Together To A Cyber Cafe So That You Can Put Your
E-Mail/Facebook Password In His Presence So That He Can Believe That You're Not
Lying To Him, Hiding Anything From Him Or Cheating On Him.
But If It Continues That
He Can't Still Trust You And Maybe, Keep Suspecting Or Accusing You Of Cheating
On Him, Then My Dear, Hard As It May Be, The Relationship Might Have To Come To
An End Because A Relationship Without Trust Cannot Really Last Long.
Anyway, I Sincerely Pray
It Will Not Come To That So Dear, Try And Arrange A Meeting With Him So That
This Particular Issue Will Be Resolved Amicably.
P.S – The IMPORTANT
Questions You Should Ask Yourself Before All These And Which I'm Also
Asking You Is This; Have You Prayed About Him? Have You Received A Confirmation
From God That He's The One? Is He Born Again? Are You Born Again?
Answering These
Questions Honestly Will Help You Know How To Prayerfully Settle Issues With
Him.
Remain Richly Blessed...
In my case I and bf tend to have a single facebook account and we tend to combine our names to that account. So,as of now we don't have any problem about it. I also know his other passwords except for the yahoomail. Anyways I myself don't want to know it because it's his personal account and I don't like to give him mine too.
ReplyDeleteAnyways, thanks for sharing this very inspiring topic of yours! Keep up the good work.
Thanks African girl and I love the way you handle your relationship by trying to be open to each other. Keep it up and remain blessed..
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