For The Weekend..

In Our Marriages, We Don Dey Allow Things And People To Dey Put Asunder Wetin God Don Join Together.

No Allow Your Mama, Papa, Friends And Even Your Children To Come Between You And Your Husband O! You Dey Hear Me So???

God No Join You And Them O… Na Only You And Your Husband!!...

If You Dey Dis Page And You Dey Put Asunder Somebody’s Marriage, Abeg Repent O In Jesus’ Name Before Nemesis Go Catch Up With You!

E Go Better For All Of Our Marriages In Jesus’ Name O! Amen!!

Make Una Enjoy This Weekend Oo
Oya Receive My Love And Hugs.. You Don Take Am?? 

Ten Lies Of Porn – Conclusion(4)..

Is There Any Freedom From Porn Addiction?

Pornography Entraps You With Lies. In Contrast, God Can Lead Us Into Truth. Jesus Said, "If You Hold To My Teaching, You Are Really My Disciples. Then You Will Know The Truth, And The Truth Will Set You Free." 

Those Who Heard Jesus Say This Were Offended And Countered, "We Have Never Been Slaves Of Anyone, How Can You Say That We Shall Be Set Free?" And Jesus Explained That People Are Enslaved To Sin, But That He Can Set You Free.

Sin Not Only Enslaves Us, But It Distances Us From God. And No One Is Perfect. No One Is Righteous In God's Eyes. Instead We're Told That "We

Johnny Lingo’s Eight-cow Wife by Patricia McGerr..

When I visited the South Pacific islands, I took a notebook along. I had a three‐week leave between assignments in Japan, so I borrowed a boat and sailed to Kiniwata. The notebook was supposed to help me become a junior‐grade Maugham or Michener. But when I got back, among all my notes the only sentence that still interested me was the one that said, “Johnny Lingo gave eight cows to Sarita’s father.”

Johnny Lingo wasn’t exactly his name. But I wrote it down that way because I learned about the eight cows from Shenkin, the fat manager of the guest house at Kiniwata. He was from Chicago and had a habit of Americanizing the names of the islanders. He wasn’t the only one who talked about Johnny, though. His name came up with many people in many connections. 

If I wanted to spend a few days on the island of Nurabandi, a day’s sail away, Johnny Lingo could put me up, they told me, since he had built a five‐room house—unheard‐of luxury! If I wanted to fish, he could show me where the biting was best. If I wanted fresh vegetables, his garden was the greenest. If I sought pearls, his business savvy would bring me the best buys. Oh, the people of Kiniwata all spoke highly of Johnny Lingo. Yet when they spoke, they smiled, and the smiles were slightly mocking.

“Get Johnny Lingo to help you find

Ten Lies Of Pornography – Conclusion(3)

Porn Addiction: Am I Addicted?

If You See Any Of These Patterns In Your Life, You Need To Put The Brakes On Right Now! Is Porn Becoming More And More In Control Of Your Life? Do You Have Trouble Putting It Down(Magazines) Or Switching It Off(TV/Computer etc.)? Do You Keep Going Back For More?

What Can I Do?

The First Thing You've Got To Do Is Admit That You Struggle With Pornography. Believe Me; You Are Not Strange Or Unusual If You Do. Millions Of Men And Women Are At Various Stages In Their Struggle With Porn. It's Really Not Surprising. 

The Porn Industry Has Spent Billions Of Dollars Trying To Snare You. Is It Really Shocking That They Have Succeeded? For Some Of You There May

He Stopped Communicating With Me, I Mistakenly Lost My Virginity With Another Man, Now He’s Back And Wants To Marry Me But Blames Me For My Lost Virginity. What Should I Do?

Dear Beloved, Please Help A Friend In Need: My Fiancé Is In A State Of Bitterness. I And My Fiancé Has Been In A Very Good Relationship For Many Years Now. He Was A Very Nice And God Fearing Person. We Grew To Love Each Other. All Through Those Times He Knew I Was A Virgin And Encouraged Me To Keep It. Then All Of A Sudden He Stopped Communicating With Me And Didn't Respond To My Messages. This Went On For Long And I Became Broken Hearted Because He Was The Best Friend I Had Then. I Confided In Matured People Even My Mum And They Told Me To Move On With My Life Which I Reluctantly Did. Someone Else In My Church Approached Me For Dating, I Refused Initially But Had To Accept – Not Because I Was Really Interested But To Get My Lost Friend Out Of My Mind. All Throughout The Period Of Dating My Present Man, I Was Emotionally Unbalanced. One Day, One Thing Led To Another And He Had Sex With Me, I Was So Full Of Regrets After That Day, The Feeling I Had Was Awful. I Had To Leave Him Because He Turned Out To Be Someone I Never Desired – He Was Just The Opposite Of My Other Guy. Immediately I Left Him Still In Pain Of Giving Myself To Him, My Other Friend Re-Surfaced Back With Excuses Of How He Was Struggling To Be A Man To Come Back And Settle Down With Me. He Then Asked If I Was A Virgin, I Couldn’t Stand The Shame And Reaction From Him So I Had To Lie. After A Year, He Proposed, I Still Couldn’t Tell Him Out Of Fear. We Were Preparing For Our Marriage And I Decided To Pay Him A Visit With My Parent's Consent. One Thing Led To Another, He Had Sex With Me And Found Out. I Had To Confess And Told Him Everything. After Some Time He Forgave Me And He Is Pushing On With The Marriage But He Hasn't Been Himself. He Is Bitter, Brings Up The Past And Falls Sick From Time To Time. I Have Made Peace With God Long Ago But I Can’t Forgive Myself For Hurting Him This Way. He Is Resenting Me, He Said He Can’t Get The Thought Out Of His Mind, And That It Will Forever Live With Him, That Things Might Not Be The Way It Use To Be And Lots Of Other Things. He Said There Is Nothing I Can Do Cos I’ve Lost His Most Cherished Gift To Another Man. I Am Full Of Regrets Now. I Haven’t Been With Any Man Since Then, I Wished It Was Him But It Wasn’t Intentional. If Only He Didn’t Go, I Might Not Have Even Had Anything To Do With Another Man. I Am So Confused. What Can I Ever Do Again? I Have Prayed To God To Forgive Me And Heal Him. I Don't Know What To Do. I Only Cry And Pray Day And Night.

ANSWER:

My Dear Sister, Your Story Is A Long One But I Couldn’t Cut Much Out Because It’s Really A Heavy Burden From/In Your Heart.  A Man That Is Really Interested In Marrying You Will Not Just Disappear Like That For A Long Time Without Keeping In Touch With You – The Excuse Of Struggling To Be A Man So He Can Come And Marry You Does Not Really Make Much Sense.

What If He Returned And Met You Married, Wouldn’t He Have Continued With His Life? To Now Blame You And Refuse To Forgive You Of Your Past Because You Lost Your Virginity In The Process Is Quite A Harsh Judgement. Am I Exonerating You? NO! But Like

Pray For Nigeria..

As Tomorrow Na Presidential Election, We Must To Panel-Beat Heaven’s Gate With Our Prayers O! So Join Me Make Wey Pray!
Baba God, Na Only Your Counsel Go Stand For This Election In Jesus’ Name O! Amen!

As You Dey See All Hearts, No Allow Bad-Belle Person - Who Fit Use Beautiful Smiles And Wonderful Words Take Deceive Us But Who No Fit Deceive You - Sit Down For Our Presidential Seat In Jesus’ Name O!

Abeg Frustrate And Disappoint All Those Politicians With Evil Agenda Against Us And Our Naija In Jesus’ Name O! Amen!
Na Peace, Untiy, Love And Progress And NEVER War, Hate, Division And Stagnation Go Be The Portion Of Our Naija In Jesus’ Name O!

Baba God, Abeg Use Your Hand Take Select The Person Whose Decisions And Agenda And Policies Go Favour Us, Our Families And Our Dear Naija In Jesus’ Name O! Amen!
Blood No Go Flow O! And We No Go Lose Any Of Our Friends And Loved Ones For This Election Period In Jesus’ Name O!

E Go Beta For Us O!
E Go Beta For Our Families And Friends O!
And E MUST To Beta For Our Naija In Jesus’ Name O! Amen!!!

The Banner And Protection Of God Over Us Na Im Love So Enjoy Am Wella This Weekend And Abeg Dey Careful O As You Dey Shine Your Eyes..
Also Try Vote As Me Go Still Try For My Area.. Make My Fingers Rest For Now...
Una Doooo!!!

Ten Lies Of Porn – Conclusion(2)..

Porn Addiction – The Pull Of Pornography:

Not Everyone Who Sees Porn Will Become Addicted. Some Will Just Come Away With Toxic Ideas About Women, Sex, Marriage, And Children. However, Some Will Have Some Kind Of Emotional Opening That Allows The Addiction To Really Grab Hold. 

The Porn Companies Don't Mind At All If You Become Completely Addicted To Their Product. It's Great For Business. For Porn Addicts, It Has Been Found That There Are Different
Stages Of Addiction. Let's Look At These Stages:

Early Exposure:
Most People Who Get Addicted To Porn Start Early. They See Porn When They Are Very Young And It Gets Its Foot In The Door.

Porn Addiction:
You Keep Coming Back To Porn. It Becomes A Regular Part Of Your Life. You're Hooked And Can't Quit.

Escalation:
You Start To

He Told Me That I Should Choose Between School And Marriage. I Don’t Know What To Do.

Hello Beloved, I’m 23yrs Old And In Courtship With This Man – My Mum And Dad Know Him. It Happened That I Decided Not To Go To School But Someone Advised Me To Go Since My Elder Ones Are Through With Their Education. I Made Up My Mind To Go And I Let My Fiancé Know Everything About Me Including My School Stuff. He Said That We Should Do Introduction Since Am About To Go To School But I Told Him That Am Not Ready For That Now Since My Elder Sister Has Not Done Hers Even Though She’s Through With Her Education And That He Should Wait For Me To Enter School First. Later He Told Me That I Should Choose Between School And Marriage. I Told Him That Am Going To School Since I Have Explain Everything To Him But He Said If I Go To School That I Should Forget About The Relationship. I Want You To Advise Me Because I Don’t Know What To Do. I Really Love Him And I Don’t Want To Lose Him.

ANSWER:

My Dear, As For Me, I Will Advise You To Go To School And If Your Fiancé Cannot Wait To Do Your Introduction After You’ve Entered School, Then Let Him Go 'Cos There's No Way You Can Eat Your Cake And Still Have It Since He Has Asked You To Make A Choice. You Need Your Education So That You Can Be More Productive In The Future And Be Of Greater Assistance To Your Husband.

If This Man Cannot Wait For You To Go To School But Is Already Asking You To Choose Between Him And Your Education{Though He May Be

Weekend Advice..

When We Dey Talk Of Having Respect For God, No Be By Just Going To Church And Warming The Seats There O! If Your Fiance/Fiancee Abi Na Your Wife/Husband No Get Better Regard For God, Wahala Dey O!

You See Ehh, No Courtship/Marriage Relationship Be Smooth Ride O! Storms Must Hit Am And E Get The Kind Storm Wey Go Hit Una Wey Go Scatter That Relationship If You And Your Partner No Dey Correctly Rooted In Christ Jesus.

One Adage Say “Na Wen Breeze Blow, We Dey See Fowl Nyash” And Na True Be Dat O! So If You Never Marry, First Dig Your Own Root In Christ First So That He Go Lead You To Person Wey Don Still Dig His/Her Own Root For Inside Am Too.

If You Don Marry And Your Husband/Wife Na Sunday-Sunday Christian{Just Christian For Mouth}, Na Prayer O! Start With Yourself First Make E Dey Obvious To Your Partner Say You Don Change Wella Then Trust God To Use You Draw Your Partner Inside Christ Jesus Too.

E Don Finish For My Mouth For Now O!

I Pray Say God Go Help All Of Us ‘Cos This Marriage Matter No Be Small Thing Oo! Christ Wey Be The Rock Of Ages Go Help Us Stand So That We Go Fit Overcome Every Storm Wey Come Our Lives In Jesus’ Name O! Amen!

I Too Love Una But I Never Die For Anybody O! So Make We Throway Salute For Baba God Wey Love Us Sote He Send His Only Son Jesus To Die For Our Sins Even Wen We Still Dey Roll For Inside The Sin.

BABA GOD, ME{Beloved} I SALUTE YOU O!

I Pray Say This Weekend Go Carry Nyafu-Nyafu Blessings For All Of Us O! Amen! hear

heart emo

Ten Lies Of Porn – Conclusion(1)..

Bottom Line Of Porn Addiction:

Pornography Makes A Profit From The Ruined Lives Of Young Women And Entraps Men Who Will Spend Lots Of Time And Money Succumbing To Their Product.

We Might Think That The Things We See And Hear Don't Affect Us. Yet We All Admit That Good Music, Good Movies And Good Books Add A Lot To Our Lives. They Can Relax Us, Educate Us, Move Us Or Inspire Us. Just As Uplifting Media Can Benefit Us, Pornographic Images Can Negatively Affect Us.

Images Are Not Always Neutral. They Can

I Don't Know If He Is Waiting For God To Come Down And Tell Him We Are Meant For Each Other..

Dear Beloved, I'm A Single Mom With Two Kids And There's This Man I Met; He Also Has A Daughter And We Just Started Dating. He's Steadfast In Prayers Even Stronger Than Me When It Comes To Faith And Everything Concerning A Christian. We've Both Been Through A Lot From The Various Experiences We've Had. We Both Like Each Other A Lot But Due To What He Has Been Through He Keeps Saying When God Decides, I Really Need To Understand That Term "When God Decides" Cause I've Also Had My Own Experiences. I've Always Thought That God Brings People Together For A Reason And We, As Humans, Have To Work And Pray Concerning It. I Don't Know If He Is Waiting For God To Come Down And Tell Him We Are Meant For Each Other Or We Should Pray Concerning Our Relationship. How Will I Know When God Says Yes Or No. He Cares About Me And My Kids But He's Still Frightened About His Past And What He Went Through. During My Prayers Yesterday Morning Cause We're Having Prayer And Fasting In My Church, I Had A Vision About Me And The Man Celebrating Our Traditional Wedding, I Was In Tears And I Refuse To Make Up When The Make Up Artist Came, I Kept On Crying Cause I Never Expected I Will Get Married Some Day And A Call Was Put Through To Him To Talk To Me And Comfort Me Before I Dressed Up. I Want To Know If It’s Tears Of Joy Or If There's Another Interpretation To The Vision. Please Back Me Up In Prayers.

ANSWER:

My Dear Sister, First Of All, I’ll Begin By Saying That This Is One Of The Reasons Dating Is Not Supported By Me Apart From The Fact That It Does Not Have Any Scriptural Backing. In Dating, The Relationship Is Not Defined As I’m Seeing In Your Message. If It Was Defined From The Beginning, You Wouldn’t Be Asking These Questions ‘Cos You Would Know Exactly The Outcome Of Your Relationship With Him.

Coming To Your Man, I’ll Say He’s Trying To Tread Sofly And Carefully Lest What Happened

Weekend Advice..

For Some Wey Feel Say They Really Dey In Love, This One Fit Sound Like Say E No Dey Possible But Make I Tell You; Any Love Wey Make You Disobey God No Be Love O! Na Pure Lust.

If You Say Na Because Of The Kind Love Wey You Get For The Person Make You Commit Fornication Abi Na Adultery With Am Instead Of To Tell Am No Way! Know Say Na Confusion Hold You O Cos That One Na Pure Lust!

So If Any Man Abi Na Woman Tell You Say If You No Gree For Am, He/She Go Cut Off The Relationshi...p, Abeg Gather The Strength Wey God Give You And Tell The Person Say As He/She Still Dey Talk, You Sef Don Terminate The Relationship Sharperly Because To You, Heaven Dey More Important Pass The Person!

I Pray Make Baba God Give You The Power To Stand Against Any Kind Of Sin/Evil For Your Life In Jesus’ Name, Amen!

I Too Love Una But My Love No Reach The One Wey Baba God Get For Una..
Again I Pray Say Make You Enjoy Your Weekend Wella.. :) :)

In The Area Of Genotype Medically, We Are Not Compatible; But I Believe In The God Of All Possibilities. What's Your Advice?

Dear Beloved, I Greet You. By God's Grace, I'm Very Convinced About His Leading To Me In The Area Of Marriage. In Subjecting This Conviction To Some Tests, I've Been Able To Go Through Prayer, Purity, Patience, Peace Test, Etc. But In The Area Of Physician Test, We Are Both AS. Although I Have Peace Within Me, But There Are Some Challenges That Will Frighten Your Convictions; And This Is One. I Don't Believe Love Is Blind, But It Covers Multitude Of Sins. I'm 25, And She Is 20. I'm Not Going Into Marriage Until About 3 Years Time. I Know God Is Not The Author Of Confusion. I Have No Problem With Other Tests Concerning My Genuine Conviction, But One Cannot Overlook The Physician Test In The Area Of Genotype. Medically, We Are Not Compatible; But I Believe In The God Of All Possibilities. I've Heard Testimonies Of SS Changing To AA, HIV/AIDS Vanished, Woman With No Womb Giving Birth, Etc. But As A Marriage Counselor (Like-Mind Faith Because I've Been Reading Your Updates For Years), What's Your Advice?

ANSWER:

My Brother, I Will Go By Your Strong Conviction That God Is The One Leading You To Marry This Sister Who Shares The Same Genotype Of AS With You. We Serve A Living God Who Created And Can Re-Create The Universe And Everything Found In Man Including His Genes, Tissues, Nerves, Ligaments, Blood Cells, Etc. There’s No Impossibility In His Dictionary.

But I Must Stress The Fact That If Your Faith Is

Ten Lies Of Pornography(10)..

 Women Should Be Degraded:

Most Often Than Not, Women, In Pornographic Films Have Been Shown To Be A Little Above Dummies(Toys/Dolls). We See These Should-Have-Been-Confident Women In Pitiful And Vile Positions Yet “Seemingly” Enjoying The Whole Torturous Scenes.

Porn Is Often Full Of Hate Speech Against Women. Women Are Shown Being Tortured And Humiliated In Hundreds Of Sick Ways And Weeping/Begging For More. Does This

Kind Of Treatment Show Any Respect For Women? Any

“LOVERS’ DAY” WITHOUT CHRIST, THE AUTHOR OF LOVE???

Like So Many People Are Already Saying; ‘TOMORROW IS THE D-DAY’ And They’re Preparing Seriously For It. Now If You Ask Them Why, The Answer Would Be; ‘IT’S VALENTINE OR LOVERS’ DAY!, A Day To Show The Extent Of Your Love To Your Loved One!

Now I Wonder Along These Lines;
**Why The So Great A Preparation For Something That Passes In Just One Day?
**How Has The Devil Managed To Twist The Great Love Of God Which Ought To Be Celebrated Everyday Into A So-Called “Lovers’ Day” Filled With Sexual Immorality And The Likes?

Sisters Who Profess To Be Born Again, What Are You Planning For Tomorrow And The Weekend? Why Must You Fall For This World’s Definition Of Love? How Can The World That Is Devoid Of The Rich Love Of God, Push You Into Sexual Sin All In The Name Of Love? What Happened To Your First Love, Jesus Christ??

Brothers Who Claim To Be Spirit-Filled, How Can You – In The Name Of Love – Invite That Sister To Your House Or Even To Spend The Weekend With You? Does It Not Show That You’ve Not Really Known The True And In-Filling Love Of Christ Within Your Heart? Why Must You Sacrifice Your Destiny At The Alter Of Lust And Sex?

Celebrating St.Valentine’s Day Aka ‘Lovers’ Day And Dressing Up In Red And White Is Only A Resounding Gong Or A Clanging Cymbal Without The Love Of Christ Jesus Who’s The Author Of Love Dwelling Richly In You!{1Cor.13:1}

Is It Possible To Celebrate Love When You Have Not Yet Known The Author Of Love{God} And Experienced His Unconditional Love? NO!

I Beseech You Brethren, Do Not Mortgage Your Future By Joining The World To Participate In All Forms Of Sexual Immorality Because Your Body Is The Temple Of The Holy Spirit And God Would Destroy Anyone Who Defiles Or Destroys His Temple{1Cor.3:16-17}.

Rather, Choose To Celebrate Every Day, The Love God Has For You That Made Him Send His Only Son Jesus To Die For Your Sins. AS JESUS CHOSE TO DIE FOR YOU, HAVE YOU CHOSEN TO LIVE FOR HIM??

Remember, Christ Jesus Died For ALL And ALL DIED! We Who Are Now Alive In Him Should Henceforth No Longer Live For Ourselves But For Him Who Died And Was Raised From Death!{2Cor.5:14-15}

And Do Have An Awesome Weekend..

I Am Not Happy Anymore On This. I Want To Be Christ Centered Just Like Before. Please Advise Me.

Dear Beloved, I Am Disturbed Because I Had An Affair. I Am Married For 2 Years. I Am Trying To Forget Her Because I Want To Start Building My Life Again. My Wife Doesn’t Have An Idea About This. I Love My Wife So Much But It’s Just That I Was Tempted And Drowned With Lust(Great In Bed, Sex Appeal, Giver Etc.). Now, This Woman Is Away And I Feel I Am Busted Because She Is Away From Me For Weeks. I Don’t Know What To Do. Please Tell Me What To Do And Completely Forget Her And What We Had Before ‘Cos I Don’t Want To Lose My Family. Can I Be Saved Again? I Want To Revive The Joy Again. I Am Not Happy Anymore On This. I Want To Be Christ Centered Just Like Before. Please Advise Me. God Bless You.

ANSWER:

My Brother, I Want To Point Something Out To You First Of All Before Proceeding With Advising You On What To Do: You Have Not Yet Come To Detest The Sin Of Adultery You Fell Into And Also The Woman You Committed That Sin With. You Said She’s Away And You Feel You’re Busted But What If She Had Not Gone Away, Will You Have Stopped? And If She Returns, Will You Continue From Where You Stopped?

You Must First Come To Hate With Passion, The Sin You Fell Into Because

Ten Lies Of Pornography(9)

Illegal Sex Is Fun:

God Created A Man And Woman And Introduced The Act Of Lovemaking Which Bonds The Couple. He Made Sex Beautiful And Dignifying Because It Bonds Not Just The Bodies But The Spirits And Souls As Well.

But Pornographic Scenes Often Has Illegal Or Dangerous Elements Thrown In To Make Sex More "Interesting". It Suggests That You Can't Enjoy Sex If It Isn't Weird, Illegal Or Dangerous. The Use Of Weird Toys, Objects And Gadgets Have Been Introduced By Them To Make Sex “Sexier”.

In Pornographic Movies, We See People Having

Weekend Quotes..

Many Of Us Are Still In Their Week(s) Of Prayer So Let Me Chip In Something That Will Make Your Prayers To Receive Speedy Answers:

***No Matter How Long You Fast And Pray, If You’re Still Praying For The Death Of Your Enemies, You’re Wasting Your Time O! ‘Cos How Do You Expect God To Answer You When You’re Out-Rightly Disobeying His Command?

Now Hear Me;
**God Himself Knows It’s Not Easy To Love And Pray For Someone Who Enjoys And Is Determined To Keep Hurting You But That’s The Only Thing That Shows His Seed Of Love Is Within You; And His Grace Abounds To Enable You Keep His Commands..

**When You Quote “Do Not Suffer A Witch To Live”, Remember That The Same Bible Says That “Rebellion{Disobedience} Is As The Sin Of Witchcraft” So Be Careful Before Your Prayers Begin To Affect/Destroy You Too!

**No Matter What Your Pastors Lists As ‘Prayer Points’, If They Contradict The Words Of Christ Jesus Himself And His Disciples, Please Dis-Regard It And Pray According To The Scriptures ‘Cos God Never Told Us To Listen To Your Pastor But To His Son Jesus In Whom He Is Well Pleased!

I Pray God Will Answer Your Prayers As You Pray Correctly In Jesus’ Name, Amen!
Loving You All With The Love Of Christ Jesus; heart emoticon heart emoticon
And A Glorious Weekend To You All.. smile emoticon :)

Right Now I Feel Used, Dumped And Frustrated. Please Tell Me How I Can Fight Against This Regret And Bitterness Am Into Now.

Dear Beloved, I Am In A Distance Relationship With A Young Man Since Last Year While We Both Were Serving As A Youth Corpers. By God's Grace We Are Believers But We Are Not Of The Same Tribe. We Used To Have Misunderstanding Then Due To His Attitude Of Not Being That Caring And His Unfaithfulness Because He Used To Ask Some Sisters Out Which I Knew About Two Then Before We Finished Our Service. This Really Caused A Big Problem Between Us Cos I Couldn't Believe That He Will Do Such Thing And It Really Broke My Heart And I Wanted To Break The Relationship But He Pleaded And I Accepted Him Back. Something Happened Recently That Made Me To Reflect On What He Did To Me In The Past And I Started Telling Him That He Did Not Love Me Because I Will Not Be The One That Will Be Reminding Him To Call Me, Then He Said That I Used To Remind Him Of The Pain He Caused Me And For This Reason, I Should Follow My Mind And He Wished My Well. I Was Shocked That Truly This Man Did Not Love Me As He Professed To Me; And He Even Proposed To Me. I Now Accept My Fate That I Will Not Force Him To Love Me But The Problem I Have Now Is That I Can't Even Let Him Go Out Of My Mind And Heart, I Feel Depressed And Bitter Now. I Regret Ever Knowing Him Because He Made Me To Compromise Last Year On Pre-Marital Sex Which I Have Vowed Never To Indulge In Again Till I Get Married. So Right Now I Feel Used, Dumped And Frustrated. Please Tell Me How I Can Fight Against This Regret And Bitterness Am Into Now. Please Help Me ‘Cos Am Emotionally Down. God Bless You.

ANSWER:

My Dear, I Was Really Touched As I Read Your Message But What Has Happened Has Happened And You Simply Need To Move Forward With Your Life 'Cos I Know That The Brother Is Already Moving On With His Life. From What You Said About Him, I Wonder The Kind Of Believer That Would Be Asking Some Sisters Out When He’s In A Relationship With You.

Now On Woman To Woman, Let Me Tell You Something About Our Emotional Make-Up Which I Feel You Might Have Known Already, We Are Too

Ten Lies Of Pornography(8)..

Women Like Rape:

Rape Has Been Defined As (A Man) Forcing Someone To Have Sex With Him Against Their Will. Most Often, Rape Occurs In A Very Subtle Form – Using Clever And Indirect Methods – And Has Permeated Our Countries, Mostly As A Result Of Exposing Ourselves To Porn.

"When She Says No, She Means Yes" Is A Typical Porn Scenario. Women Are Shown Being Raped, Fighting And Kicking At First, And Then Starting To Like It. Porn Teaches Men To Enjoy Hurting And Abusing Women For Entertainment, Believing That Deep-Down, She’s Enjoying It.

A Man Who Professes To Be A

A GLORIOUS YEAR TO US ALL – But Don’t Overlook the “IF”!

You May Have Trusted The Lord For Many Things Last Year And Maybe They All Didn’t Come To Pass, Don’t Give Up I Say; This Year, Here Are My Prayers And Instructions For You IF, IF, IF, IF, IF, IF And Only IF You’ll Obey The Lord With All Your Heart And Live For Him And Him Alone:

If You Fully Obey All Of These Commandments Of The Lord Your God, The Laws I Am Declaring To You Today, These Are The Blessings That Will Come Upon You:

Blessings In The City, Blessings In The Field; Many Children, Blessings Of Fruit And Bread; Blessings When You Come In, Blessings When You Go Out.

The Lord Will Defeat Your Enemies Before You; They Will March Out Together Against You But Scatter Before You In Seven Directions!

The Lord Will Bless You And Prosper Everything You Do When You Arrive In The Land The Lord Your God Is Giving You. He Will Change You Into A Holy People Dedicated To Himself; This He Has Promised To Do If You Will Only Obey Him And Walk In His Ways.

All The Nations In The World Shall See That You Belong To The Lord, And They Will Stand In Awe. The Lord Will Give You An Abundance Of Good Things In The Land, Just As He Promised: Many Children And Abundance. He Will Open To You His Wonderful Treasury Of Rain In The Heavens.

He Will Bless Everything You Do; And You Shall Lend To Many Nations, But Shall Not Borrow From Them. If You Will Only Listen And Obey The Commandments Of The Lord Your God That I Am Giving You Today, He Will Make You The Head And Not The Tail, And You Shall Always Have The Upper Hand.

BUT EACH OF THESE BLESSINGS DEPENDS ON YOUR NOT TURNING ASIDE IN ANY WAY FROM THE LAWS I HAVE GIVEN YOU; And You Must Never Worship Other gods.