I Can't Afford To Lose Her..

This question is about me madam. I need your advice. I hav my lover I truly love her to my wife, now she has her sisters who are older than her but they are corned by men and they end up disappointing them so of recent this month her sis gave birth but the man said he doesn’t even know her unfortunately even the baby passed away so imagine beloved, a man to treat a girl like that. So my lover based on this, she sent me a msg in that she is scared I might be playing funs on her but beloved, I truly love her I want her to be my wife. She is my first girl in life but now I don’t know wat to talk to her that can confirm her because she can’t see wat is at my heart, I need your advice, GOD BLESS U BELOVED. Paul

ANSWER:
Hi Paul, In reply to your predicament, I will start by asking you if you have really prayed about this lady and God spoke to your spirit that she's your wife. If you're not sure, you might really love and want to marry her now but the story may change next year when you see another lady more beautiful than her.

But if you're sure she's the wife God has chosen for you, then just commit her in prayers and ask God to also speak to her heart to convince her that you're her husband. What the man did to her sister was not fair and I don't blame your lady for being scared but such is life.She has to be able to trust you.

There's nothing prayer cannot solve, so hand it over to God and patiently wait for His will concerning your marriage to come to pass. If she's your wife as ordained by God, she'll definitely understand that you're not like those men and come back to you. I hope this advice will be of help to you.

All the very best dear and remain blessed..

A Review Of The "Ten Errors Singles Waiting-on-God Make"..

Greetings to you all in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. For the past weeks, we have been studying the "Ten Errors Christian Singles Waiting-on-God Make" and to cap it up, we will list again the ten errors and they are;

1. Having idols in your heart..

2. Continuing To Engage In Any Form Of Sex Outside Marriage..

3. Ignoring Unbroken Covenants with the people you’ve slept with..

4. Ignoring Your Vehicle of Destiny..

5. Being Ignorant Of The Mystery Of Marriage; Marriage to demonic spirits – having sex and babies in the dream..

6. Dismissing The Subject Of Unholy Dressing; Wearing Indecent, Skimpy and Half-clad Dressing..

7. Dismissing God’s Warning; Do Not Be Unequally Yoked With An Unbeliever..

8. Getting Into Ungodly Associations; Consulting Seers, Horoscopes, Native Doctors, Listening To Worldly Music and Watching Pornographic Movies..

9. Living With A Lady/Man Who’s Not Your Wife/Husband..

10. Leaving Unbroken Curses In Place; Cursed Families Where People Marry Late Or Not At All, And Separation/Divorce For Those That Manage To Get Married..

You can prayerfully go through them again and allow the Holy Spirit show you where you might be at fault so that you can repent and return to the right path.

Do you have any question to ask concerning these “Errors”? Please feel free to ask here..

Remain richly blessed as I wish you the best of the week..

Love Quotes For Your Weekend(14)..

Only LOVE can be divided endlessly and still not diminish..

Even a simple smile could be the mightiest gift of LOVE..

Our ability to pray for people and surround them with LOVE makes an enormous difference in how they feel and heal..

Our hands do not tremble, except for ourselves, or for those whom we LOVE..

Sometimes it’s hard to LOVE someone because you’re so afraid of losing them..

Remain richly blessed as I wish you the best of the weekend..

Is A Relationship Between Two Religions Possible?

Hi Beloved, please how are you going to handle a relationship between two religions if you entered this kind of relationship? Sometimes it comes to a point where both of you have an argument because of contradicting perspectives, beliefs, and even principles/ standards. Are you gonna give up or go on with the relationship?? Anne

ANSWER:
Hi Anne, I believe you can prayerfully handle such a relationship because we have one belief, one faith, one standard, one hope and one Lord who's Christ Jesus. Now if these religions does not have Jesus Christ as its focal point (Way, Truth and Life), then there's no need in continuing the relationship.

I say this because if both of you do not have the same Saviour, then it can be likened to the relationship between light and darkness and I believe you know what the Bible says about that. If you are in the kingdom of light, then you need not enter into a relationship with one who’s in the kingdom of darkness cos anybody without Christ is in darkness.

BUT if you're both Christians, then the perspective, beliefs, and even principles/standards ought to be the same because Christ is ALL and He's in ALL and need I mention that we also have the mind of Christ. All the very best.

Remain richly blessed dear..

Ten Errors Singles Waiting-On-God Make(10)..

Leaving Unbroken Curses In Place; Cursed Families Where People Marry Late Or Not At All, And Separation/Divorce For Those That Manage To Get Married:

Some families are unknowingly placed under a curse, maybe in their past generations and some members of that family marry late, some don’t marry at all while for those that manages to get married, their marriage ends in separation or divorce.

The Bible says in Proverbs 26: 2 that “Like a fluttering sparrow or a darting swallow, an underserved curse does not come to rest” so if you find yourself seeing this type of occurrence in your family, then it’s time to go down on your knees, fast and pray your way out of that curse because in Christ, old things have passed away and all things are new and as such, that curse will not come to rest upon your life.

If you think you are not strong enough, you can visit your church pastor to help you in prayers. Now is the time to wake up from your slumber and break free of every shackles; seen and unseen because you’re a child of God and as such, a glorious liberty is your portion.

Who is he that speaks and it comes to pass when the Lord have not spoken. Take your stand and refuse the plans of the evil one to take hold on your life.

Remain richly blessed..

Love Quotes For Your Weekend(13)..

There’s someone who knows your heart and every single thing there is to know about you – and He LOVES you anyway. His name - GOD..

LOVE is God and God is LOVE..

If LOVE you hold – no matter how the years go by, no matter how the birthdays fly – you’re not old.

LOVE is the ability to see beyond the faults of another and to discover the beauties of his or her heart..

Life is a school; those who learn to LOVE and help others graduate with honors..

LOVE is always saying you are sorry..

Remain richly blessed as I wish you the best of the weekend..

Help! I Can't Get Him Off My Mind..

Hello Beloved. They is a guy dat we were frnds,gradualy d lov bcum so strng.bt now we ar no more coz i saw him wt many gals & i broke up wt him.bt i stil love him deeply frm ma hat i cnt even sleep eva since.i dnt kw wat 2 do pls help me.

ANSWER:
I'll start by saying that I will be very honest with you. Though most people don't like an honest answer but I pray you'll accept it.

Were you proven right about the girls you saw him with before you broke off with him? Were you really sure he was cheating on you? If your answer is yes, then I can truly tell you that you just have to go on with your life.

But if your answer is no, then breaking off with him didn't help matters as you're still in love with him. It means that you acted in a haste and now repenting in leisure. But all the same, what's done is done and you're no longer together.

I can say from the tone of your report that it wasn't a Christian relationship because if it is, it wouldn't be causing you this pain and sleepless nights. When Christ becomes the foundation of your relationship, things always end well even if you didn't end together as couples.

Some would say "no need crying over split milk" so I advise you to put your life in order and move on. It's possible that he sleeps well at night while you keep thinking about him. A one-sided love is no love at all.

I believe you're a Christian so my dear, commit and tell everything to God in prayers, tell Him exactly how you are feeling and that you can't sleep. Ask God to remove him from your heart so you can focus on your life.

Time waits for no man dear so don't waste yours thinking and pining for someone who might not even have the same feelings for you again.

All the very best dear and remain blessed..

Ten Errors Singles Waiting-On-God Make(9)..

Living With A Lady/Man Who’s Not Your Wife/Husband:

Some of us get so desperate that we decide to quicken the hand of God by co-habiting which is living with a man/lady believing that they would later get married. Are you in this situation thinking you can help God or that He’s too slow?

Remember that the Bible says in 2Peter 3:9 that “The Lord is not slow in keeping His promise as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting any to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.

Are you aware that you are living in the ways and beliefs of the world system and as such living in sin? The Bible warns against that when in 1John 2:15-17, we are told not to love the world or anything in the world. Also in Hebrews 13:4, we are told that the marriage bed should be kept pure for God will judge the adulterer and the sexually immoral.

Some guys also like such arrangement because it helps them not to spend a dime for the wedding ceremony and yet enjoy the whole benefits of marriage. This is a very big mistake and trap that singles waiting on God fall into.

God’s time remains the best so don’t hurry His hand or try to help Him in any circumstance. Delay is certainly not denial and everything must surely work out for your own good if you believe and wait on God.

Remain richly blessed..

Love Quotes For Your Weekend(12)..

A LOVING soul is a LOVED soul..

LOVE is never wasted; it always comes back to you a hundred times over..

Giving and greatness go hand in hand. They are one and the same, because to give is to LOVE, and to LOVE is the supreme duty of man..

There is no greater happiness than to know God’s LOVE and forgiveness..

Stop everything and take five minutes just to lean back in your chair, close your eyes, and think of someone that you LOVE. Send him/her your LOVE in prayer, by asking God to bless the one for whom you care..

To show someone that you LOVE him/her, give them your time..

Remain richly blessed as I wish you a happy weekend..

Is It Proper And Biblical To Re-marry After Divorce?

Hi Beloved, I want to counsel a friend on divorce and re-marriage and my question goes like this: Is it proper and biblical to re-marry after divorce?

ANSWER:
Thanks Joseph for your concern and question. I’m going to answer your question based strictly on the undisputable word of God – what God Himself said, what Jesus said and what St. Paul also said concerning the issue of divorce and re-marriage.

Malachi 2:16 says " I hate divorce, says the Lord God of Israel, and I hate a man's covering himself with violence as well as with his garment, says the Lord Almighty. So guard yourself in your spirit and do not break faith”.

Here you see God personally talking. He hates divorce. Then in Matthew 5:31-32, Jesus Himself reaffirms again that divorce was not permitted in the beginning when he said;

“Further more, it has been said; whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce. But I say unto you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality and marries another, commits adultery, AND WHOEVER MARRIES HER WHO IS DIVORCED COMMITS ADULTERY”.

You can also read Deut.22:13-30 to see that God never permitted divorce rather that the guilty party(ies) should be stoned to death thereby proving what He said that it is only death that can part a married couple and nothing else.

Then read Deut. 24:1-4 and focus on verse 4 to see what God thinks of a second marriage. He sees it as DEFILEMENT.

And remember also that Jesus told the Pharisees that Moses allowed them to give their wives certificates of divorce because of the hardness of their hearts but it was not so in the beginning. See Mark10:2-12 and focus on verse 11&12.

Then in 1Cor. 7:10-11, Paul said “Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord; a wife is not to depart from her husband, but even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife”.

I believe and pray that these verses from the Scripture will help you in talking to your friend on this issue.

Remain richly blessed dear..

Ten Errors Singles Waiting-On-God Make(8)..

Getting Into Ungodly Associations; Consulting Seers, Horoscopes, Native Doctors, Listening To Worldly Music and Watching Pornographic Movies:

Do you call yourself a child of God and yet, you still visit and consult seers/native doctors to tell you who is delaying your marriage, when Mr. /Ms. Right will show up or who among your various prospects is the correct person.

Some of us read and believe daily horoscopes that tell us our lucky day, lucky colours and when we’ll meet our perfect match instead of believing God who alone sees the end from the beginning.
Some of us even go to the extent of collecting charms from native doctors to use and catch their future partners and trap them into marriage forgetting that who sows in deceit will also reap in deceit cos God is not mocked.

Some singles waiting on God also listen to worldly romantic music and watch pornographic films that incite their sexual feelings and before they know it, they have fallen into the bondage of masturbation, fornication, lesbianism and homo-sexualism.

We are what we watch and listen to no matter how we think they don’t get to us, they do!! God told us during the transfiguration to LISTEN to Jesus and the Bible also tells us to LOOK UNTO Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith.

These ungodly associations are not to be found in the life of a Christian because they are traps the devil uses to cage God’s children. If you really know and believe that you’re a genuine born-again Christian, avoid these things, trust in God and your expectations will never be cut off. That’s a promise from God!

Remain richly blessed..

Love Quotes For Your Weekend(11)..

LOVE is best found when looking to give it to another..

To put the needs and desires of another person above your own is LOVE in its purest form..

LOVE is giving especially when it hurts..

If you don’t accomplish anything else today except show LOVE to all you meet, you’ll be a great success..

LOVE is the key that will open even the hardest heart..

Money can buy many fine things, but LOVE, peace, and happiness are the most precious treasures to be found or bought..

Remain richly blessed as I wish you the best of the weekend..

Ten Errors Singles Waiting-On-God Make(7)..

Dismissing God’s Warning; Do Not Be Unequally Yoked With An Unbeliever. 2Cor.6:14:

As Christians, so many of us think it’s alright to enter into relationships with unbelievers believing they’ll change with time but unfortunately, they don’t. The truth is that anyone that didn’t change his/her bad life-style for good in a relationship hardly changes it during marriage.

You might think that every church-goer is a genuine believer but it doesn’t follow because some of them name the name of Christ but do not depart from iniquity. Some even attend churches just to marry a godly brother/sister and later in life, they might contribute to the backsliding of that person. This is reality.

As a single waiting on God, never make the mistake of going into a relationship with someone who’s not mature in Christ because first of all, he/she might unconsciously make you backslide in your faith and Christian race and secondly, anyone not grounded in Christ can never love you enough no matter how they may swear to loving you forever.

After few years of married life, his/her love for you begins to fade and if proper care is not taken, they might find themselves cheating on their partners. This happens because we need Christ to daily fill our love baskets and this can only be done for those who are securely in Christ.

Even if you think you’re getting too old, never rush into marriage with an unbeliever because you might still rush out or remain there enduring instead of enjoying your marriage. Just believe and trust in God!! He never counts or works with time. It’s always 100% solid-proof to go into a relationship and marry a true believer in Christ.

Question: Are you already in a relationship with an unbeliever? Do you need advice? Feel free to ask here..

Remain richly blessed..