True And Real Love Revealed..

Love Is Practical And Not Just In Words..

Working with I Corinthians 13:4: which reads; Love never gives up, Love cares more for others than for self, Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have, Love doesn’t strut, Love doesn’t have a swelled head(TM), the question to ask now is this; but how do we know when love is present? What are the practical effects of love?

Love suffers long; That is love reacting. Love puts up with many things. Peter had to learn a lesson in love when he asked how many times he should forgive, Love doesn't show impatience because it forbears.

Love is kind; Here is the positive side of love's patience - kindness. A great preacher of the past said:

Ten Lies Of Pornography(7)..

Prostitution Is Glamorous:

We may wonder why prostitution is no longer hidden but legalized in most countries but all these have their roots in pornographic movies. It subtly injects into us the practice of homo-sexuality, lesbianism and multiple sex partners at the same time.

Now, gay marriages have also been legalized in most countries and even in some churches.

Porn paints an exciting picture of prostitution. In reality, many of the women portrayed in pornographic material are

Weekend Quote..

IT IS NOT HARD TO FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL 

TELL YOU THAT THEY LOVE YOU. 

THE HARD PART IS FINDING SOMEONE WHO WILL 

SAY THOSE WORDS AND ACTUALLY 

MEAN THEM..

Special Edition: For The Married; Give Your Marriage a Tune-Up!

...be kind to one another, tender hearted... Ephesians 4:32

The secret to closeness in marriage is not sparkling conversation or shared interests or incredible sex. As good as those are, the secret is practising plain, old-fashioned thoughtfulness and kindness. It's the stuff we learn when we're young and forget when we're too busy: things like respect, sensitivity, attentiveness and caring. If your marriage needs a tune-up, start doing these four things. First, practise 'hug therapy'. When you're at odds with each other, remember this: 'Hearts may agree though heads differ'. A hug works wonders. When we touch

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A Woman's Value Depends On The Attractiveness Of Her Body:

This is an area that has eaten deep into our society today. Everybody – both male and female believe that if a lady is not tall, slim, sexy, shapely(perfectly rounded) and flaunts it, then she’s nothing but an object which can be considered as a second choice. Therefore, our markets are filled with all manner of lightening creams, spot-removers; anti-aging creams etc. and women are seriously patronizing them.

Less attractive women are ridiculed in porn. They are called dogs, whales, pigs or worse, simply because they don't fit into porn's criteria of the "perfect" woman. Porn doesn't care about

Weekend Quote..

NEVER BE MADE TO FEEL LIKE YOU'RE UGLY AND WORTHLESS.

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL AND AMAZING WITHIN;

AND ONE DAY,

SOMEONE WILL SHOW YOU THAT..

Any Hope For Me After Rejecting So Many Guys?

I'm 21yrs so many guys are asking me out some even promise 2 marry me, but I'm not ready yet coz I don’t want 2 rush in 2 a relationship that will end me in pains as I'm still seeking 4 admission into the university. My question is this: will I still see a guy that will marry me after I’ve rejected so many guys? Please help me out.

ANSWER:

Hi dear, thanks for seeking a Godly counsel here. My answer to your question is that whenever God is ready for you, He will give you a husband that He chose specially for you so do not fear that no one will marry you after rejecting so many guys.

You're 21yrs and still have your studies and life to face and most of those guys are really not serious about

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Good Sex Requires Super-Human Energy:

Porn makes you believe that sex requires endless energy and passion. In reality, the men and women portrayed in pornographic movies are constantly on hard drugs which give them the extra energy to perform endlessly.

Moreover, movies are made in cuts and joined at the end of the shoot but they make you believe in super-human power and if care is not taken, in marriage, you will tend to think less of your partner who’s only human and start cheating on him/her looking for the person will super-human energy.

This particular lie affects the men more than the ladies because they are expected to perform

Weekend Quote..

WHEN YOU DEVELOP AN INFATUATION WITH SOMEONE, YOU'LL ALWAYS FIND A REASON TO BELIEVE THAT THE PERSON IS THE RIGHT ONE FOR YOU..

BUT

IN REALITY, THAT IS NOT ALWAYS TRUE..

Help! His Love Is Becoming Unbearable..

I love my fiancé but he doesn’t trust me. He always want things done his way even if it’s 2 my disadvantage. I’m not pleased by the way he treats me and the fact that he doesn’t want any1 around me apart 4rm himself. Even I’m forced 2 do away with some of my friends and it’s becoming unbearable. Please I need your advice.

ANSWER:

Hi Emmy, your fiancé is trying to control your life and that is really not possible because we cannot control people as much as we try or want to do that. He has some trust issues to deal with and if he doesn’t deal with it, he can never trust you. The two people in every relationship deserve equal respect from each other.

He should not force you to give up your friends and people around you if he really respects you. He’s supposed to put your needs before his needs if

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Little Kids Should Have Sex:

Most times, we wonder at the rate child trafficking, child abuse and other forms of child malpractices are on the increase but its root can be found in the subtle psychological influence of pornography whereby women are dressed as little kids and behave as such too to win over their male counterparts. This injects into most men the thoughts of molesting and sexually abusing babies and little kids, even their children in some cases.

One of the biggest sellers in pornography is imitation of "child" porn. The women are "made-up" to look like little girls by wearing pony tails, little girl shoes, holding a teddy bear. The message of the pictures and cartoons is that

Love Quotes For Your Weekend(20)..

Never give up on finding LOVE because at the end of the road when you finally do find it, you’ll be glad you never stopped..

To be LOVED and chosen by a good man who truly LOVES and fears God is the best thing that can happen to any woman..

Every woman deserves a man who LOVES and respects her, and every man deserves a woman who appreciates his LOVE and respect..

You can lose the awareness of LOVE, but never LOVE itself. LOVE is what we are..

One of our purpose in this world is to LOVE others because we are the children of God and God is LOVE..

Wishing you the best of the weekend. Remain richly blessed..

Help! I'm Always Aroused Around Women..

I'm Emmanuel. My problem is I am always sexually aroused anytime my body comes into contact with a lady either old or young. I find it very difficult to understand and what might be the cause? Please help me out.

ANSWER:

Hi Emmanuel, thanks for choosing to seek a Godly counsel about this serious matter. Becoming sexually aroused when your body comes in a close contact with a female body is quite natural but the frequency you mentioned is a bit alarming. You said "anytime" your body comes into contact with a lady and I take that to mean "ANYTIME" and this is not natural. The causes might be any of the following:

Firstly, maybe you think a lot about women in general - both old and young - and from what's happening to you, those thoughts

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Women Are “Property”:

Pornography unconsciously injects the idea on our minds that women are nothing but properties to be purchased and kept, used and discarded when tired of them. Unfortunately, even some ladies are buying into this misconception thereby allowing themselves to be treated as rags.

Most men find it so easy to man-handle and turn women into punching bags because they believe they own them since they spend on them or paid their bride-price. These unfounded beliefs stem from years of watching porn and allowing those subtle ideas infest our minds instead of renewing our mind with the Word of God.

We've all seen the pictures of the slick car with the sexy girl draped over it. The unspoken message, "Buy one and you get them both." Hard-core