What To Do When So Many Guys Are After You..

What do you do when there are so many guys that want to be in a relationship with you?

ANSWER:
Hi NK , I’ll answer your question from two perspectives and I would be very honest with you. When so many guys want to be in a relationship with you, never be in a hurry to choose/accept any of them. Check these two options to know where you fit into:

Firstly, you have to consider your age. Are you ready to settle down and are any of those guys ready to settle down? If not, entering a relationship without a proper definition is very fatal at any stage.

If you’re not ready for marriage, then you don’t need to enter into any relationship just for the fun of it because your emotions and heart will suffer when the relationship is abruptly terminated and I wouldn’t want that for you.

Now should be the time to develop your values, goals, and vision in life and passionately work towards it. A relationship at this stage without future can only distract you from your focus. You can decide to rather keep them as friends.

Secondly, if you believe you’re of age and would want to settle down, then you’ll begin to pray about it because not of all of those guys are really serious. Some are just there to catch their fun with you and continue on their life’s journey.

I’ll also refer you to the book of Proverbs 3:5-6 which says “trust God from the bottom of your heart; don’t try to figure out everything on your own. Listen for God’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go; He’s the One who will keep you on track” MSG.

This verse will help you to seek God’s divine will and choice of the right partner because marriage is for life and should not be entered into just for the fun of it or just for the sake of getting married. With these, I believe you would now know what to do with those guys.

Remain richly blessed dear..