How Do I Know God’s Will On Who To Marry??

Dear Beloved, How Do You Really Get To Know God's Will On Whom You Are To Marry? I’m In My Second Year At The University And Want To Ask; Is There Anything Wrong Engaging Into A Relationship Leading To Marriage?

                      

ANSWER:

In Knowing The Will Of God On Whom You Are To Marry, The First Step Is In Knowing God As Your Father; Jesus As Your Lord And Saviour; And The Holy Spirit As Your Guide And Teacher – This Means Becoming Born Again. If You’ve Not Come To This Point In Your Life, Then I’ll Advise You To Begin At This Stage.

                                                  

Secondly, The Will Of God, As Shown Us In 1 Thess.1:3-5a Says “It Is God’s Will That You Should Be Sanctified: That You Should Avoid Sexual Immorality; That Each Of You Should Learn To Control His Own Body In A Way That Is Holy And Honourable, Not In Passionate Lust Like The Heathen Who Do Not Know God.” This Is First Of All, God’s Will For Your Relationship.

You Cannot Be In A

Be Careful Of Who You Get Married To ‘Cos It Defines Your Destiny!

One Of The Hells On Earth Is Marrying The Wrong Person{You Can Ask Those Sadly Lamenting In A Marriage Of Barely Two(2) Years}. Your Marriage Can Make Or Mar Your Destiny Depending On The Person You Choose To Marry.

                

Some People Are Fire Extinguishers Used By Our Arch Enemy{The Devil} To Put Out The Godly Fire And Zeal In The Life Of A True Believer In Christ Jesus. You Must Therefore, Be Very Careful Of Whom You’re Getting Married To ‘Cos It Will Define Your Destiny!

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Is It Okay To Take And Send Pictures To Your Long Distance Partner??

Dear Beloved, Is It Okay To Take Pictures For Someone You Are Committed To, Especially If You Guys Are In A Long Distance Relationship And Do Not Get To See Yourselves Often? What Are The Restrictions If Any That Should Be In Place If This Is Allowed.

ANSWER:

There’s Nothing Wrong In Sending Your Pictures To Someone You’re Committed To Who’s Far From You. But It Becomes NOT OKAY When Those Pictures Arouses Sexual Desires In Your Partner. Any Guy/Lady That Asks You To Send Nude, Semi-Nude Or Scantily-Dressed Pictures Of Yourself To Him/Her Is Not Of God. The Bible Strictly Warns Us To Avoid All Appearances Of Evil And This Warning Should Be Heeded.

When It Comes To Restrictions In Relationships, I Believe Every Relationship Is Unique And As Such Should Define Their Own Boundaries Because

Is There A Problem In Meeting Your Spouse On Facebook??

Dearly Beloved, I Met A Guy On Facebook ‘Cos We Happen To Have Hundreds Of Mutual Friends Including My Siblings Whom He Went To Same School With. It All Started When We Started Liking Each Other's Comments On Other People's Walls. This Continued For About Two(2) Years But None Us Was Bold Enough To Say Hello Or Add Each Other As Friends. Finally He Sent Me A Message To My Inbox. We Added Each Other And Started Talking Everyday And Now We Are Both In Love. The Good Thing I Like About Him Is That He Is Also Born Again & We Are Both Celibate. He Said He Is Only Into A Relationship Heading To Marriage So I Pray Every Day That It Works Out Fine ‘Cos I Really Like Him A Lot. But Here Comes My Problem, We Still Haven't Met ‘Cos I Am Thousands Of Miles Away From Him So I Don't Know How He Is Like In Person & This Gets Me Very Nervous. So, Please I Need To Know, Is There A Problem In Meeting Your Spouse On Facebook?

ANSWER:

My Dear, There’s Really No Problem In Meeting Your Spouse On Facebook Or Any Social Media On The Net. I Say This Because God Cannot Be Limited – He Can Use Any Medium To Being Two People Together. Actually, My Elder Sister Has Been Married For Four(4) Years Now And She Met Her Husband On One Of The Social Networks And By God’s Grace, They’re Both Happy And Enjoying Their Marriage.

Their Relationship Was Equally A Long-Distance One Like Yours But Before She Ever Committed To Her Husband, She Insisted That He Must

To Love And Be Loved In Return..

Have You Ever Loved Someone Who Never Returned Your Love? Being Hurt Or Heart Broken Seems Of No Significance When Compared To The Silent Agony One Experiences Watching Who You Love Busy Loving Someone Else And Blissfully Ignorant Of Your Love.

Have You Ever Listened – With Pain In Your Heart – To The Secret Love Of Your Life Telling You About His Love For Another? Those That Has Passed Through Such Will Testify That It Is Not An Experience They Would Ever Want To Find Themselves In Again! Why You May Ask? It Simply Squeezes The Life Out Of You And It’s Also Against God’s Plan To Give You Life In Abundance.

God Never Wanted You To Experience A One-Sided Love. He Wants You To

FORNICATION AND PREGNANCY BEFORE MARRIAGE IS A SIN!

“FIRST YOU SAID AM NOT PAYING ATTENTION TO YOU AGAIN, WHY SHOULD I? I DON’T ENJOY ANYTHING IN THIS RELATIONSHIP. FOR FOUR YEAR NOW I NEVER HAD SEX WITH YOU APART FROM THAT INCIDENT WHERE I ALMOST RAPED YOU. THIS MEANS U DON’T RESPECT MY FEELINGS, YOU DON’T CARE ABOUT MY EMOTIONS. IF YOU WANT ME TO START PAYING ATTENTION, GET ME WITH MY WEAKNESS. MY WEAKNESS IS SEX. GIVE IT TO ME. SO TO GET ME, GET PREGANANT FOR ME. IF YOU CAN DO THAT, I PROMISE NOT TO LEAVE YOU BUT TO MARRY YOU.”

Ladies In The House; Have You Ever Come Across Brothers Like The One Who Said This? Any “Brother” Or “Pastor-To-Be” Who Will Ever Utter These Words To You Is Not A Genuine Born Again Christian And You Should Run From Him! Another Man Who Will Appreciate You For Wanting To Keep Yourself Will Come For You By The Grace Of God.

Sex Without Marriage Is Fornication No Matter How We Try To Paint It And Any Guy That Says You Should Get Pregnant For Him Before He Can Marry You Is A Liar. Why Tempt God? Your Getting Pregnant Might Not Solve But Rather Compound The Problem And What Would You Now Do In This Case? Abortion? God Forbid!

[1 Pet.5:8 – “Be Self-Controlled And Alert. Your Enemy The Devil Prowls Around Like A Roaring Lion Looking For Someone To Devour.”]

What If His Family Or He Personally

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What Can You Do If Your Partner Finds It Hard To Control His Emotions Around You??

Dear Beloved, What If Your Partner Who You Are Convinced To Be The Will Of God Still Finds It Difficult To Control His Emotions When You Are Together Though A Christian. What Can You Do To Stop It?

ANSWER:

In As Much As I’ll Advice You To Avoid Being Together With Him Especially In Private Places, One Question I Need To Ask Is This; A Man That Finds It Hard To Control His Sexual Emotions Around You Will Also Find It Hard To Control His Emotions Around Other Ladies; So How Do You Plan To Put His Sexual Emotions In Check?

If It Is About You, I Can Easily Advice You On How To Control Your Sexual Emotions With The Help Of 

Do Not Waste Your Love..

Do You Know That It’s Very Possible To Waste Your Love On The Wrong Partner? That You Spent Three(3) Or Five(5) Years In A Relationship Does Not Make It Marriage-Worthy If You’re With The Wrong Partner. It Means You Just Wasted Priceless Years Of Your Precious Life..

               

**Why Go Naked By Over-Exposing Your Breasts, Buttocks, Thighs, Fixing Artificial Eye-Lashes And Everything Fixable Just Because You’re Hoping Against Hope That You’ll Get Him/Her To Approve Of You?

**Why Lavish Your