CONFESSIONS OF A CONVERTED “EX PLAYER” {Part Three}..

That Lady/Babe/Sister Is Someone Else's Future Wife:

Here's What I Mean: Most Of The Girls I've Been With Are Now Married To Other Men. When I Put Myself In The Shoes Of Those Men, I Wish That I Hadn't Done What I've Done. In Fact, I Might Even Like To Punch Myself In The Nose For It. But That Lies In The Past. Now, By The Grace Of God, I Know Better.

And So, It Goes Without Saying That When I Get Married, I'm Not Going To Like The Idea That Someone

Is Divorce Godly? My Marriage Is In A Confused Stage. Please Advice Me.

Dear Beloved, Am A Lady Of 32 Years; Married To A Guy Of 34 Years.  Before We Got Married, He Got A Lady Impregnated And They Had A Baby Boy Together. He Met Me On A Christian Platform And Proposed To Me So We Got Married Afterwards. The Issue Is That The Other Lady Is On My Neck Claiming To Be Godly And Condemning Me In Everything Because She Knows My Husband's Weak Point And She’s Really Using That. I Swear To God With My Life That I Didn’t Do Jazz For My Husband But That’s What She’s Claiming To The Point Of Telling My Husband I Wasn’t God's Will For Him But That She Is. Right Now, My Marriage Is In A Confused Stage. Please Advice Me And Is Divorce Godly? Thanks

ANSWER:

My Dear Sister, Let Me Start By Making One Thing Very Clear To You; You Have The Absolute Right And Power To Fight For And Defend Your Marriage But It MUST Be Done On YOUR KNEES! You’re The One Married To Your Husband Not Her; So Even If She Had A Child For Him, She Still Has No Right To Want To Put Asunder What The Lord Has Joined.

                

Now, Before You Can Carry This Burden And Fight To God, I Have To Ask You; Does God Know You? Are You One Of His? It Is

Weekend Quote..

I Have A Friend Whom I Love So Much But Have Not Disclosed My Love For Her. Should I Tell Her My Mind Or Wait?

Dear Beloved, Please I Need An Advice Concerning My Relationship Or Friendship. Am A Newly Graduated Student, Waiting For My NYSC. But While I Was In School, I Had A Friend Who I Love So Much But I Did Not Disclose My Love For Her But Rather I Was Just A Friend To Her. I Knew Her Through Her Kind Gesture Towards Me And Since That Moment Up Till Date, My Mind Has Always Been With Her, Especially In Year One. Even Without Thinking Of Her, I Will Dream Of Her Helping Me In My Past Life And My Heart Always Tell Me Whenever I See Her That She Is My Wife. But My Problem Is This, I Have Not Told Her About My Intension Because I Don't Know How She Will React, She Is Very Religious Just Like Me. I Don't Have A Job And Money Now To Marry Her, Even If She Accept, Because I Wish To Marry Four Years From Now. Do You Think I Should Tell Her My Mind Or I Wait Till Then. I Have Discussed With My Mother, She Said I Should Discuss It With Her, But Whenever I Made Up My Mind To Tell Her, She Will Always Say That She Is Busy. Please What Are Your Opinions?

ANSWER:

My Brother, I’m In Support Of The Advice Given To You By Your Mother. This Issue Will Never Leave You Till You Make Out Time And Discuss The Matter With That Sister. Be Bold Enough To Tell Her To Carve Out A Time For You From Her Busy Schedule ‘Cos You Have A Serious Issue You Would Want Both Of You To Discuss.

                      

Now It Could Be That She Already Has An Idea Of What You’re About To Tell Her Hence The ‘Busy’ Excuse – ‘Cos Ladies Are Most Often, Very

CONFESSIONS OF A CONVERTED “EX PLAYER” {Part Two}..

I Now Want To Be More Honorable Toward Women:

I've Found That Girls Often Don't Fully Understand What's Going On When It Comes To Sex. That Is, Their Perspective On The Whole Thing Is Very Different From A Guy's. Often A Girl Will Justify Sex By Saying, "But I Love Him," Even If She Doesn't Really Want To Go Through With It. Why Does That Happen? It's Been Said That, "Girls Use Sex To Get Love; Guys Use Love To Get Sex."

This Is How It Works: The Girl Is Picturing Marrying The Guy Some Day; The Guy Is Picturing Everything He Wants