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Monday, September 09, 2013

Was Her Pastor And Her Mum Who’s An Evangelist Mistaken When They Told Her That He’s The Man For Her Considering Her Predicament??

Dear Beloved, Please I Want You To Help Me Answer This Question And Also Post It. Sis Becky Is A Christian At Least From The Outward Appearance And Behaviour. There Is This Bro So To Say That Usually Come To Visit Her Then. Sister ‘B’ Is 23year Old And A Virgin, So She Said And We Believe Her. 
Her Mother Is An Evangelist. She Told Me That Both Her Mum And Her Pastor Confirmed That, That Was The Guy She Should Marry Though She Never Told Me She Had The Revelation Herself. But She Took His Name To The Mother And Pastor And Both Confirmed That, That Brother Is Her Husband. She Is Still In The University 400level. 
During The Cause Of Their Relationship, She Got Pregnant For Him. To Be Honest, I Have Never Seen Her With Any Man Expect When That Brother Started Coming. At First D Brother Denied The Pregnancy Saying That He Is Not Responsible For It, The Sister Also Insisted That It Was The Brother That Dis-Virgined Her. 
On The Long Run, He Accepted The Pregnancy. This Very Brother Drinks And Rains Abuses On Her. Can’t Remember The Last Time He Went To Church, Though I Am Not 2 Judge, But With What I Have Seen In Him And His Appearance, Hmmm! He Had A Baby Earlier With Another Woman. Now The Question He Asked The Lady Was; Do You Want To Marry Me Or You Just Want Us To Have A Child Together. 
My Question Now Is (1) Was She At Fault Because She Did Not Have The Revelation Herself.(2) Was Her Mom And Pastor Wrong When They Told Her That, That Was God Will For Her Because You Once Said That God Will Not Give You An Ungodly Man As Husband Or Ungodly Woman As Wife. (3) What Went Wrong? (4) What Is The Solution Though She Got Pregnant Out Of Wedlock? Tanks And God Bless You. More Wisdom.
My Dear Sister, The Answer To The First Question Is Yes; She’s At Fault Because She Did Not Seek God’s Face To Receive Her Own Revelation. Giving Excuses Or Looking For Who To Blame Will Never Vindicate Us. That Adam Blamed Eve And Eve Blamed The Serpent Did Not Make God To Pardon Their Sin Of Disobedience. It Also Applies To Us – We Must Give Our Own Personal Account On The Last Day!

To Your Second Question, I Can Say That Her Mum And Her Pastor Were
Not Right About Saying That The Will Of God For Her Life Is An Ungodly Man. Now She’s Paying The Price Of Entering A Relationship With Someone Who Has No Regard Or Respect For God. The Bible Warns Us That We Should Not Be Unequally Yoked With An Unbeliever And Every Warning From The Bible Is For Our Own Good.

To Your Third Question, What Went Wrong Is That She Just Accepted Her Pastor And Her Mum’s Revelation Without Seeking Hers First. Then She Entered Into An Ungodly Relationship And Engaged In Pre-Marital Sex Through Which She Now Got Pregnant. If She Had Prayed Before Entering And Also Refused To Fornicate With Him, It Would Have Been Another Story.

Finally, The Solution To Her Predicament Is To Seek God’s First And Repent Of Her Sin First Of All. After Which She Will Trust God To Help Her Through The Pregnancy Period Because Abortion Will Never Be An Option. She Has Made The First Mistake – No Need Making Another By Killing A Life Within Her. I Believe She Will Learn Through This Experience And Become Wiser And I Pray This Predicament Will Draw Her Closer To God.

#ThisIsNotTheEndOfTheRoad – HerBestIsYetToCome – ButOnlyInChristJesus#


  1. And please, the man is not her husband yet until he marries her. Encourage Sister 'B' not to marry the guy out of pressure or shame, she is not obliged to marry him and should not let any pastor push her into compounding her problem by marrying the ungodly man.

    She sinned, yes, but if she returns to the Lord with a contrite heart, He will abundantly pardon (Isaiah 55:6-7). Like Beloved said, her best is yet to come, but ONLY in Christ.

    1. Thanks Precious. Her best is yet to come indeed in Christ Jesus..


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