CONFESSIONS OF A CONVERTED “EX PLAYER” {Part Six}..

     Waiting To Have Sex With My Wife Will Mean Better Sex In My Marriage:

 Why? Because We'll Go Into The Marriage With Me Having More Respect For Her And Her Having More Trust In Me. One Thing I've Learned: If A Girl Doesn't Trust A Guy, She Doesn't Want To Give Herself Wholly To Him. Deep Down, She Doesn't Really Enjoy Being With Him.

This Is How It Works. Since "Girls Use Sex To Get Love, And Guys Use Love To Get Sex," A Couple Will
Have Sex Before Marriage. The Girl Does This To Hold On To The Relationship. The Guy Does It Because He Wants It Even More Than The Relationship Itself.

 Then, After The Marriage, The Woman Has What She Wants: A Commitment From The Man. So She Doesn't Need To Use Sex To Get Him Anymore. And, Because She May Be Harboring Resentment Because He Had Sex With Her Before They Were Married, She Is Now Not So Interested In Sex.

 And The Guy -- Who Doesn't Treasure His Wife Because Of The Sex Before Marriage -- Still Wants Sex But Not As A Total Bonding Experience With His Wife. It's Just Sex, Which She Figures Out. So, There Is A Lousy Sex Life In The Marriage.

 I'm Not Making This Stuff Up. Now That I'm Out Of University And Many People Around Me Are Getting Married, I'm Seeing It Happen All The Time. The Antidote: Waiting For Marriage To Have Sex Will Give The Man A Greater Respect For His Wife And The Woman A Greater Respect For Her Husband.

 And Consequently They'll Have Better And More Frequent Sex Because They Respect Each Other More And Love Each Other More Deeply.