In The Area Of Genotype Medically, We Are Not Compatible; But I Believe In The God Of All Possibilities. What's Your Advice?

Dear Beloved, I Greet You. By God's Grace, I'm Very Convinced About His Leading To Me In The Area Of Marriage. In Subjecting This Conviction To Some Tests, I've Been Able To Go Through Prayer, Purity, Patience, Peace Test, Etc. But In The Area Of Physician Test, We Are Both AS. Although I Have Peace Within Me, But There Are Some Challenges That Will Frighten Your Convictions; And This Is One. I Don't Believe Love Is Blind, But It Covers Multitude Of Sins. I'm 25, And She Is 20. I'm Not Going Into Marriage Until About 3 Years Time. I Know God Is Not The Author Of Confusion. I Have No Problem With Other Tests Concerning My Genuine Conviction, But One Cannot Overlook The Physician Test In The Area Of Genotype. Medically, We Are Not Compatible; But I Believe In The God Of All Possibilities. I've Heard Testimonies Of SS Changing To AA, HIV/AIDS Vanished, Woman With No Womb Giving Birth, Etc. But As A Marriage Counselor (Like-Mind Faith Because I've Been Reading Your Updates For Years), What's Your Advice?

ANSWER:

My Brother, I Will Go By Your Strong Conviction That God Is The One Leading You To Marry This Sister Who Shares The Same Genotype Of AS With You. We Serve A Living God Who Created And Can Re-Create The Universe And Everything Found In Man Including His Genes, Tissues, Nerves, Ligaments, Blood Cells, Etc. There’s No Impossibility In His Dictionary.

But I Must Stress The Fact That If Your Faith Is

Ten Lies Of Pornography(10)..

 Women Should Be Degraded:

Most Often Than Not, Women, In Pornographic Films Have Been Shown To Be A Little Above Dummies(Toys/Dolls). We See These Should-Have-Been-Confident Women In Pitiful And Vile Positions Yet “Seemingly” Enjoying The Whole Torturous Scenes.

Porn Is Often Full Of Hate Speech Against Women. Women Are Shown Being Tortured And Humiliated In Hundreds Of Sick Ways And Weeping/Begging For More. Does This

Kind Of Treatment Show Any Respect For Women? Any

“LOVERS’ DAY” WITHOUT CHRIST, THE AUTHOR OF LOVE???

Like So Many People Are Already Saying; ‘TOMORROW IS THE D-DAY’ And They’re Preparing Seriously For It. Now If You Ask Them Why, The Answer Would Be; ‘IT’S VALENTINE OR LOVERS’ DAY!, A Day To Show The Extent Of Your Love To Your Loved One!

Now I Wonder Along These Lines;
**Why The So Great A Preparation For Something That Passes In Just One Day?
**How Has The Devil Managed To Twist The Great Love Of God Which Ought To Be Celebrated Everyday Into A So-Called “Lovers’ Day” Filled With Sexual Immorality And The Likes?

Sisters Who Profess To Be Born Again, What Are You Planning For Tomorrow And The Weekend? Why Must You Fall For This World’s Definition Of Love? How Can The World That Is Devoid Of The Rich Love Of God, Push You Into Sexual Sin All In The Name Of Love? What Happened To Your First Love, Jesus Christ??

Brothers Who Claim To Be Spirit-Filled, How Can You – In The Name Of Love – Invite That Sister To Your House Or Even To Spend The Weekend With You? Does It Not Show That You’ve Not Really Known The True And In-Filling Love Of Christ Within Your Heart? Why Must You Sacrifice Your Destiny At The Alter Of Lust And Sex?

Celebrating St.Valentine’s Day Aka ‘Lovers’ Day And Dressing Up In Red And White Is Only A Resounding Gong Or A Clanging Cymbal Without The Love Of Christ Jesus Who’s The Author Of Love Dwelling Richly In You!{1Cor.13:1}

Is It Possible To Celebrate Love When You Have Not Yet Known The Author Of Love{God} And Experienced His Unconditional Love? NO!

I Beseech You Brethren, Do Not Mortgage Your Future By Joining The World To Participate In All Forms Of Sexual Immorality Because Your Body Is The Temple Of The Holy Spirit And God Would Destroy Anyone Who Defiles Or Destroys His Temple{1Cor.3:16-17}.

Rather, Choose To Celebrate Every Day, The Love God Has For You That Made Him Send His Only Son Jesus To Die For Your Sins. AS JESUS CHOSE TO DIE FOR YOU, HAVE YOU CHOSEN TO LIVE FOR HIM??

Remember, Christ Jesus Died For ALL And ALL DIED! We Who Are Now Alive In Him Should Henceforth No Longer Live For Ourselves But For Him Who Died And Was Raised From Death!{2Cor.5:14-15}

And Do Have An Awesome Weekend..

I Am Not Happy Anymore On This. I Want To Be Christ Centered Just Like Before. Please Advise Me.

Dear Beloved, I Am Disturbed Because I Had An Affair. I Am Married For 2 Years. I Am Trying To Forget Her Because I Want To Start Building My Life Again. My Wife Doesn’t Have An Idea About This. I Love My Wife So Much But It’s Just That I Was Tempted And Drowned With Lust(Great In Bed, Sex Appeal, Giver Etc.). Now, This Woman Is Away And I Feel I Am Busted Because She Is Away From Me For Weeks. I Don’t Know What To Do. Please Tell Me What To Do And Completely Forget Her And What We Had Before ‘Cos I Don’t Want To Lose My Family. Can I Be Saved Again? I Want To Revive The Joy Again. I Am Not Happy Anymore On This. I Want To Be Christ Centered Just Like Before. Please Advise Me. God Bless You.

ANSWER:

My Brother, I Want To Point Something Out To You First Of All Before Proceeding With Advising You On What To Do: You Have Not Yet Come To Detest The Sin Of Adultery You Fell Into And Also The Woman You Committed That Sin With. You Said She’s Away And You Feel You’re Busted But What If She Had Not Gone Away, Will You Have Stopped? And If She Returns, Will You Continue From Where You Stopped?

You Must First Come To Hate With Passion, The Sin You Fell Into Because

Ten Lies Of Pornography(9)

Illegal Sex Is Fun:

God Created A Man And Woman And Introduced The Act Of Lovemaking Which Bonds The Couple. He Made Sex Beautiful And Dignifying Because It Bonds Not Just The Bodies But The Spirits And Souls As Well.

But Pornographic Scenes Often Has Illegal Or Dangerous Elements Thrown In To Make Sex More "Interesting". It Suggests That You Can't Enjoy Sex If It Isn't Weird, Illegal Or Dangerous. The Use Of Weird Toys, Objects And Gadgets Have Been Introduced By Them To Make Sex “Sexier”.

In Pornographic Movies, We See People Having