Dear Beloved, I do
have a problem – My hubby & I. We have been apart since Nov. last year up
till now.We don’t see or talk to each
other and when I try calling him, he won’t pick my calls but he always ask my
friend how I’m doing.I’m now afraid that
he might marry again. I do love my hubby so much & know and believe that he
loves me too. Please help me.
I'll start by thanking
you for confiding in me and seeking a Godly solution to your marriage
relationship. I might not fully know what caused the break between you and your
husband but God personally said in the book of Malachi that He hates divorce or
one's putting away of his wife.
Pornography entraps you
with lies. In contrast, God can lead us into truth. Jesus said, "If you
hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth,
and the truth will set you free."
Those who heard Jesus say this were
offended and countered, "We have never been slaves of anyone, how can you
say that we shall be set free?" And Jesus explained that people are
enslaved to sin, but that He can set you free.
Sin not only enslaves
us, but it distances us from God. And no one is
If you see any of these
patterns in your life, you need to put the brakes on right now. Is porn
becoming more and more in control of your life? Do you have trouble putting it
down? Do you keep going back for more?
What Can I Do?
The first thing you've
got to do is admit that you struggle with pornography. Believe me, you are not
strange or unusual if you do. Millions of men and women are at various stages in the
struggle with porn. It's really not surprising.
The porn industry has spent
billions of dollars trying to snare you. Is it really shocking that they have
Dear Beloved, what are your views about Teenage Dating? Is it
appropriate? And how can a teenager stay godly and focused in
an environment filled with distraction and ungodliness? Thanks once again.
Hi dear, I don’t support teenage dating because it is not supported by
the Word of God. Teenagers can be friends and go out together to visit some
lovely sights around town but that term called “relationship” is NOT YET for
Not everyone who sees
porn will become addicted. Some will just come away with toxic ideas about
women, sex, marriage, and children. However, some will have some kind of
emotional opening that allows the addiction to really grab hold.
companies don't mind at all if you become completely addicted to their product.
It's great for business. For porn addicts, it has been found that there are different
can u speak on keeping distance relationship and making it work in Godly
Hi dear, I can give you
some advice here because I'm engaged to a Christian brother and we're miles
apart but it doesn't faze nor disturb me because I trust him and he truly knows
that he's answerable to God and not man(me).
The first point to note
in every Godly relationship is
Pornography makes a
profit from the ruined lives of young women and entraps men who will spend lots
of time AND money succumbing to their product.
We might think that the
things we see and hear don't affect us. Yet we all admit that good music, good
movies and good books add a lot to our lives. They can relax us, educate us,
move us or inspire us. Just as uplifting media can benefit us, pornographic
images can negatively affect us.