Weekend Quote..

A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP 

IS NOT IN FINDING 
THE PERFECT PARTNER BUT 
BEING ABLE TO 
COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY 

WITH 
YOUR PARTNER..

Issues On Marriage..

Hi Beloved, help me with this: Marriage is an institution established by God, now what is the major goal of marriage? Is it for procreation and what is the fate of a fruitless marriage? Similarly, is marriage compulsory for a Christian? If yes, why do we have celibates in our midst?

ANSWER:

Hi dear, your question is packed full of many questions but I will try taking them one by one.

First of all, the MAJOR GOAL(s) of marriage as written in Gen.1:28 are (a) be fruitful and increase in number (b)

Ten Lies Of Pornography(10)..

Women Should Be Degraded:

Most often than not, women, in pornographic films have been shown to be a little above dummies(toys/dolls). We see these should-have-been-confident women in pitiful and vile positions yet “seemingly” enjoying the whole torturous scenes.

Porn is often full of hate speech against women. Women are shown being tortured and humiliated in hundreds of sick ways and weeping/begging for more. Does this

Weekend Quote..

SOMETIMES, WE GET SO USED 

TO HOLDING ON 

THAT WE 

FORGET HOW TO LET GO..

How Do I Choose The Ideal Partner?

Dear Beloved, God bless u. I have been following ur messages and I think you may be one of the people who may help me in ministry. I do counsel people alright but I need more views. What is the procedure one should follow to choose the ideal partner and how can one be sure that such is the right fellow since there are a lot of voices that speak to us from the spiritual realms? I will appreciate ur views.

ANSWER:

Thanks my brother for the encouragements and for following the messages closely.

The ONLY procedure one should follow in choosing THE IDEAL PARTNER is The WORD of GOD and the confirmation of HIS WORD.

When the time is right for a genuine believer to settle down, God will definitely speak and 

Ten Lies Of Pornography(9)

Illegal Sex Is Fun:

God created a man and woman and introduced the act of lovemaking which bonds the couple. He made sex beautiful and dignifying because it bonds not just the bodies but the spirits and souls as well.

But pornographic scenes often has illegal or dangerous elements thrown in to make sex more "interesting". It suggests that you can't enjoy sex if it isn't

Weekend Quote..

JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE IS ALWAYS

THERE FOR YOU

DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO TAKE

HIM/HER FOR GRANTED..

She’s In Love With Someone Else..

Dear Beloved, If you love someone and have sought the face of God concerning it and got to know that it’s the will of God but the person said she is in love with someone else, how do you handle it?

ANSWER:

Hi dear, if you have sought the face of God and are very sure that He said the lady is meant to be with you, then don’t give up. Continue trusting God to meet and confirm you to that lady too.

But one thing you must know is that if the lady is an

What Love Is And What It's Not..

If you love someone because you think he/she is gorgeous, then it’s not love. It’s “Infatuation”.

If you love someone because you think that you shouldn’t leave him/her because others think that you shouldn’t, then it’s not love. It’s “Compromise”.

If you love someone because you think you cannot live without his/her touch, then it’s not love. It’s “Lust”.

If you love someone because you’ve been

Ten Lies Of Pornography(8)..

Women Like Rape:

Rape has been defined as (a man) forcing someone to have sex with him against their will. Most often, rape occurs in a very subtle form – using clever and indirect methods – and has permeated our countries mostly as a result of exposing ourselves to porn.

"When she says no, she means yes" is a typical porn scenario. Women are shown being raped, fighting and kicking at first, and then starting to like it. Porn teaches men to enjoying

Weekend Quote..

IN A RELATIONSHIP, 

YOU DESERVE TO SMILE AND BE HAPPY. 

DON'T LET ANYONE 

IN THE NAME OF "LOVE" TAKE THAT AWAY 

FROM YOU..